OpenTube

Expressing Sacred Sexuality | how to have better sex tips

Hitomi Mochizuki

593,800 views

Another video sharing my recent learnings in my sexual practice, including energetic tips and sex positions to help you deepen into your own embodiment and pleasure. I love speaking about sex in a light and open way as there was such a lack of education around boundaries, pleasure, and consent in my upbringing. When I'm making these videos its often about sharing advice that I wish I knew!
Thank you for being, just as you are.

MY SOCIAL MEDIA -
IG: yaknowme_hitomi
Spotify: thejauntforckandhm

$20 off the incredible non-stick Our Place pan http://fbuy.me/v/hitomiapm1
Free Airbnb credit for first time users : https://www.airbnb.com/c/hitomia34?cu...

If you want to skip ahead to a certain section:
0:00-1:44 Intro
1:53 Write your desires
3:53 Positive reinforcement
4:17 Let it all out
6:04 Make it intentional
7:15 Switch it up
7:31 Honor your body
8:44 Sex intentions
9:23 Spread the energy
10:48 Positions to try
15:16 Yoni Mapping
17:08-20:27 Final thoughts

MY EQUIPMENT -
Canon 5D mark IV with sigma 24-70mm art lens
Manfrotto Tripod
Studio Essentials LED ring light

Big Love,
xx

20 Comments

@sadboyangrygirl 5 years ago

I really SO appreciate how gender and sexuality neutral this is. The way you use language is so inclusive and welcoming and most importantly REASSURING.

@MOONBATHING98 5 years ago

There’s something SO POWERFUL about watching a woman talk so openly and wisely about owning and expressing your sexuality. I feel like even in this much more liberated age this topic still carries such shame and stigma for people, and watching you speak so beautifully and thoughtfully is so healing and powerful!!!! You truly are a bright light, I hope you know how valuable everything you put out there is ✨

@curiousclusterofatoms 5 years ago

NOW THIS IS SEX ED round of applause

@stayhappylittlemermaid 5 years ago

There is nothing more attractive than confidence, once you see your own beauty, so will everyone else

@An_Ka_Li 5 years ago

I strive to be this liberated sexuality. It's so beautiful to hear you talk in such a reassuring, loving and playful way.

@ronarica9684 5 years ago

“the way that you feel about sex is not permanent” as someone who got out of a toxic relationship that gave me a negative association with my sexuality, THANK YOU❤️

@oliviaj9037 5 years ago (edited)

I wish we didn’t portray sex as Immoral, degrading, shameful, or just for men. There are so many thoughts and patterns to go back and fix it’s tiring.
Edit: It’s tiring but it’s possible. Never give up. Let’s teach the future generation what we have rewritten.

@yeyzee 5 years ago

me, a virgin who hasn't even kissed yet watching this whole vid 0_0

@alicecodognesi4446 5 years ago

The way you talk about sex is just so magical, you talk about it in a natural way (like everybody should). It makes me realise how much our culture has a distorted view of sex, it's always seen as something wrong or degradating, especially for women. This is the kind of sexual revolution we need. Thank you🙏🏼

@Samantha-wl1fq 5 years ago

Hi Hitomi! I'm so glad I've found someone who can talk about topics like sex without making it sound like a "dirty" type of thing. We need more people like you in world!❤

@EarthAngelShalenah 5 years ago

"when there is a lot of foreplay and my heart feels safe" ugh you say so many gems! thank you! it's sort of funny the sex tips video you shared a few months ago i was in a completely different place in my sexual journey. what is surprising me most about sex is how much you learn about yourself in the process and how strong your intuition can be throughout. at least for me there is so much to feel, which can be rather potent.can't wait to watch this video again, i feel like there's so much to take in. lots and lots of love to you hitomi <3

@trinyenne 5 years ago

me, a virgin, watching this: yep this will come in handy

@emily-ek2se 5 years ago

I love hitomis videos on sex bc they aren't degrading in anyways and they're inclusive. Shes so good at making it feel like a safe place.

@mariecrevette 5 years ago

Okay wow, i didn't expect to be so relaxing and healing! Sexuality can be difficult sometimes cause most of the time, as a young person, idk what I'm doing, but seeing someone talking openly about this taboo subject is refreshing and so welcomed!!

@stellatheestar 5 years ago

I’m so happy to be apart of the young women who’ve grown up watching your videos, your openness about sexuality is so helpful and is helping so many people like you couldn’t even imagine. I’ve grown so much watching your videos 🦋

@nehakataria555 5 years ago

this has made me question the way i view sex, especially as a survivor!! it’s really tough to embrace whatever i feel during sex when sometimes it’s vulnerable and can cause me to cry/panic. But without embracing that, i (we) can’t embrace the positive :)

@stellatheestar 5 years ago

you’re literally the big sister I’ve never met🥺

@hdog24 5 years ago

you're so emotionally intelligent it's so attractive

@skysartstudio7336 5 years ago

write a book queen i would buy it so so quickly

@peaches8864 5 years ago

I really enjoyed the line ‘I used to do so many things to make myself small to make other people comfortable’. I’d love a video on how you’ve worked on this, I think it’s something I do too.