hi everybody <3

I cannot thank you enough for all of the love! We are truly on this journey together and I am so grateful for your kindness and support ❤️

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I miss when YouTube pushed out all different kinds of small creators to the forefront, I love thisss

I love when random small youtuber videos pop up on my feed and the video is so good

Being a painfully self-aware and self-conscious person who has a vision but not the confidence, I feel this. Thank you.

It’s strange how much of a woman’s true power never gets fully activated - not because it’s missing, but because the world keeps her distracted, second-guessing, and disconnected from it. I’m not talking about self-help cliches or surface level advice. I’m talking about the quiet hidden layers of feminine strength that shape how we move through life, how we attract, influence, and protect our energy. For generations, this knowledge has been buried under expectations, noise, and pressure to be everything for everyone. Then I found Woman He Can't Unsee by Kayla Dravert, a book that doesn’t shout at you to change, but instead helps you remember who you already are beneath the conditioning. It dives deep into the psychology, energy, and quiet dominance that so many women carry without even realizing it. What hits real deep is how honest and grounded it feels (not mystical, not fluffy), it is just real and direct. It weaves ancient feminine wisdom with modern insight in a way that makes everything click. This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about returning to the version of you that was never lost, just silenced. And once you begin to get into that, it’s like the world starts responding differently.

I live by this motto “discomfort is the potential for more comfort” and it has changed me life.

Once you start to practice the confidence, your passions start to make themselves known stronger and you can fully breathe them in. The passion and compassion you're exhaling in this video is beautiful <3

this is the format i miss. just sitting down naturally doing things not all the music effects and animations and crazy transitions and editing. just human to human. thank you

I read a quote recently that said “what if who I hoped to be was always me?”, and I get it now.

About 2 years ago, I wrote down a description of the person I wanted to be in my journal. This description wasn’t based on external expectations, like “she eats well” or “she has perfect skin” or “she has unwavering discipline”, but rather based it on my idea of a gentle, kind soul, who is not afraid to express themselves. A few days ago, I found that journal and on that page was a description of me as I am now. I hadn’t looked at it since I wrote it, but I guess I had been subconsciously working toward that version of myself all along.

Seeing myself reflected back at me as the dream version of my younger self not only made me realise how far I’d come unknowingly, but also how much I now loved myself.

I don’t have perfect habits and I still have insecurities, but becoming a kind, authentic person has made me forgiving of myself, and I love me for it. Sometimes all it takes is a vision and the intention to realise yourself within it.

It’s crazy to think that the most conventionally attractive people in the world can also be most bullied, insecure, and abused. And it happens at a young age, so you don’t understand why you were bullied until your adult years :(

i think the biggest stepping stone into being confident is realizing that self love and self respect are two different things. to be okay in your self, you have to not let people walk over you or put yourself in situations where you feel ‘loved’ but with side effects. once you respect yourself, even if you’re insecure this gets you in the mentality of not letting people waste your time and finding people who actually enjoy you and your presence.

trusting yourself is a big one. the ONLY reason i start to doubt myself is when other people butt into my life and start giving advice that i didn't ask for lmao.

one thing ive found that really just fast tracked my confidence growing was finding out i needed to get comfortable with embarrassment. that started with finding the ways i was embarrassed of myself and slowly but surely breaching them. i like to sing a lot, but i would never do it in front of another person. ive loved the idea of dancing, but moving my body even when i was alone felt awkward and vulnerable for the longest time. so i just took it in baby steps. i sing with a wall between me and my family, i danced by myself and now i dance with my curtains open. i go outside and i make myself aware of the fact that the world sees and percieves me, and that doesnt even matter. i feel these waves of shame, but i tolerate it and move on. building tolerance to shame and insecurity involves finding a sweet spot between fear and discomfort, and loving yourself means treating yourself like you do, not just thinking it. it means trying to meet your needs and desires regardless of whether or not you think you deserve them.

This just reminded me of something! This book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”. My confidence shifted in a whole new way.

It's so hard to hold confidence at the same time as being sensitive to your feelings, like the moon and the sun

soo important to talk about this!! confidence is a CHOICE it is not bestowed upon you naturally

it’s been so hard to personally accept that confidence is going to be uncomfortable EVEN WHEN YOU’RE AN EXTROVERT. I’m already pretty confident, but I’ve realised exact what this video says- it’s a muscle. We need to TRAIN it, even if we’re already relatively well-endowed.

I heared the quote "to become the person you want to be, you need to build up evidence for yourself, that you are that person". For example, if you want to become an clean person then think about ways to improve cleaniness of yourself and your surrounding and the more you clean and think about it, the more you will actually become a clean person.

bro i love the quality of the camera plus the letters font plus her style plus shes making flowering while speaking facts

Becoming your desired self is like decluttering a wardrobe. You cannot just throw away everything all at once; there is this process of thinking, where in you keep some pieces and discard the others, until you buy a new one and replace everything with clothes that fit you better. It is a long, tedious process. But once you did so, it would feel like a fever dream. I, sometimes, get riled up over how far I've come with my mental state and how I see myself, whether that is physically or not. I've spent my whole high school life gaining confidence and now, I'm here, walking on Earth in a way that shows I deserved to walk on it.