'You are really protecting your innocence every time you set a boundary' BAR!

The beauty in true intimacy is that it can be whatever we want it to be, there's no forced "way to do it" and that's what I find truly beautiful. Amazing video Hitomi

Thanks for being one of the beacons of light in this unconscious society

This is the sex talk I wish I had growing up, Idk if it's weird to say, but listening to you talk, I feel like part of myself became healed, so thank you.

Me. "I've been married for 15 years. I can skip over this video-- 'Oh wait. Oh wow. Oh I didn't know that. That's so intuitive, thoughtful, smart and caring. Hold on now, I need go grab a snack and sit down.'

"Having good sex is about being in your body and being present" ... Such a simple yet super powerful way of explain it! 💛Loved that definition 🧡

This somehow brought up pain in all the times I’ve allowed someone in that didn’t truly respect or care for me. I’m trying to move forward so consciously about who I allow to be intimately close to me

You should absolutely speak up the second something stops being pleasurable but I think as a kind reminder, everyone should occasionally check up on their partner if they are in the giving position during sex and make sure they are still enjoying it. A small “is this still okay?” Can provide the opening for someone to respond with “you know what actually can we do it like this instead?”

To touch and be touched with full presence is its own form of prayer. With roots drinking deep, skin alive to wind and warmth, the sacred dressed in flesh and earth; to be sensual is like pressing our hands into its textures and feel it press back. Navigating both the sacredness and queerness of it all, needed this x

YES! these are like love-centered masterclasses. thank you for offering this wisdom so generously and abundantly. Communication is definitely a growing edge of mine, as someone who finds it easier to keep things to myself than to let myself be seen and heard. going to try channeling my AUDACITY in the most close to home places. tyyy 💕

You always inspire me hitomi. Ive been watching you for about five years now and ive noticed sometimes i avoid your videos when im low because they pull me out of it and im not ready to come to terms. Im at a very low point now. Financially strained, no family or community around me, and just trying my best to live authentically and choose peace. I was a nurse for a second but had to quit. Anyway, thank you for being a source of light :) im gonna keep watching now because im ready to be inspired, and to pull myself up and grow. I need it right now honestly. So yeah sorry this is long, i just feel proud of you and hope to nurture myself into someone who can also inspire others. Thank you

Thy type of conversation id like for my daughter to have revolving around her sexuality and safe space, when the time is right. Thank you for sharing.
I hope this stays up forever and spreads like wildfire.

Having my sensuality be something that is for me first and someone else gets to experience"

As a straight man, who has had his share of trauma. I find this insightful and just wanted to say I appreciate your perspective. I've been rebuilding alot of things in my life, all while attempting to focus on myself rather than others. Perhaps I haven't been as spiritual to myself as I once thought, and though im not sure if im ready to have sex again (just yet), its nice to hear of your experiences friend.

This is genuinely the best sex advice video I’ve ever seen

2:18-5:44 never have felt so understood. I’ve been crying during s3x for feeling unsafe whenever it gets more rough ever since i had my first time, even though my partners have been super respectful and communicative and never blamed me nor forced me into anything. Went through thearpy to understand the origin of my trauma but what really helps is hearing from others who have had the same problem. THANK YOU GURL❤️ 3:07

Thank you for this! It’s unfortunate that more people cannot be open enough to have these conversations because its really so important to normalize sex in a meaningful , inspiring and deeper way.

I needed this. I love sex, but I can’t stop performing in front of men. I am purely focusing on their pleasure and that makes me enjoy it less, since I’m always thinking ‘bout how I look etc. Thank you for this

thank you so much Hitomi for opening portals and doorways! may all beings experience a touch of pure love.

I love how open you are on this channel ! Wish more people talked about this stuff