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Ever since I stopped abandoning myself I created a magical existence ✨️

Over the past two years I’ve applied this and my life has changed. Not in a dramatic way but I have more time for me and I let go of the guilt of having to do everything for everyone.

Someone once explained boundaries to me like this, "It's not so much about other people respecting your boundaries as it is about YOU respecting/ honouring your boundaries." Meaning, there needs to be consequences for people that overstep your boundaries and YOU need to enforce them. If you've told someone once, twice, thrice -  what the boundary is that they have crossed.... well, now you need to decide what the consequence is and actually stick to it. That's on you. Perhaps it is going no contact. Or very limited contact, etc. But you hold the power. I like this explanation.

This guy is now my favourite YouTuber, the therapist we never knew we needed. Now I’m in a happy and committed relationship with my crush. 😊

I declared 6 month ago I was not taking on other people's negative emotions, sarcasm towards me, or weird energy around me when I am just breathing. My initiation to this was excruciating. I accepted to being the villain in one situation to choose me. Felt like I was being pulled through the eye of a needle. I am exactly where Aaron is talking about. This video resonates with me.

I stop abandoning myself for SHORT TERM pleasure, like guys, who at the end would not choose me! Now I chose me!! my comany!! my purpose!

Yesssss. Stop abandoning g yourself and choose to be the REAL you! Youll attract real love into your life like a magnet!

There's this guy Soren Vantrell saying he got kicked out of Harvard, and after seeing his psychological profiling methods I'm freaked out, but his theories on how human behavior works are insane.

The most dangerous form of self-abandonment is when it feels like love. Doctor Sautra’s book gets into this idea that a pattern can become so familiar you stop experiencing it as a pattern and start calling it “who I am.” That’s the part that gets unsettling. Choosing yourself isn’t just confidence, it’s catching the old script before it makes another decision for you. Once you see that, “becoming attractive” almost feels like a side effect of no longer abandoning your own center.

Letting people sit with their tension really resonated with me. Then that tension ends up in anger towards the self...it all makes sense now.

Let me tell y’all… Why he is on point 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽when I began to recognize that I was abandoning myself in the moment… it was like an awakening for me because I realized that I could now see myself abandoning myself and out of knowing better I decided not to do it in every moment I catch myself doing it that has let me know that I follow patterns. Whenever I abandon me…it is not something that feels natural to me anymore if that makes sense.

Depending on my mother's moods, I was either caretaker to her temper tantrums or pleading with her to treat me better as a child, doing whatever she forced on me out of fear or of the belief that one day if I was "good enough" the abuse would stop. It set me up in life to tolerate all sorts of dysfunction. Spending lots of time and energy unlearning all this. She is not a well woman. My sister in law recently told her she's not welcome near the grandchildren. I'm so glad I have people outside of my immediate family who validate what I went through.

This stored energy and fear/anger towards our old patterns, hurts as h.....! Thank you for being here 🙏

Aaron, I did exactly what I’ve watched in your videos so far, and after three months of silence, my SP contacted me!!! I started believing in myself more; I detached and stopped abandoning myself. Thank you!!!!!!!!

I call myself a recovering people-pleaser. I realised I was always trying to prove my worth in different dynamics, and then one day I thought: 'What will happen if I just stop?' I'm still learning to put theory into action, but every time you stop abandoning yourself and start honouring your boundaries, you get stronger. I have also started letting people own their own emotions, instead of trying to manage them for them or internalising them.  Just because you don't like what I have said doesn't mean I said something bad. It's so simple, but with some self-reflection and introspection, you can start to sort out what belongs to whom and not take on unnecessary baggage.

I just cut the last toxic family member out of my life 6 months ago i have no friends and i choose my highest self and timeline ive never felt better finally loveing myself and createing a life i love🙏💜🌈

Familiar, past family dynamics. It’s  so true that some of us attract those very people into our lives so we put up with it for so long. We don’t need to keep them around. Stop tolerating is so important.

I attended your VERY FIRST SHIFT EXPERIENCE! It helped me to changed my life. I avoided relationships for years. Now that I’m in one. It feels like I’m learning all over again. Not entirely. You’re so articulate. Thank you

If you don’t have boundaries, maybe it’s because you haven’t suffered enough yet to understand why you need them. You haven’t reached that point where everything hurts so badly that you finally have no choice but to look at yourself and say, “Enough. I’m done doing this to myself.” Because when you reach that point, something in you breaks, but something else starts to grow. You stop making excuses for people. You stop begging for things that should come naturally. You stop accepting the bare minimum. You stop abandoning yourself just to keep someone else around. You turn all that energy back onto yourself. And then you work. Really fucking work. You work on your mind. Your body. Your habits. Your self-respect. Your discipline. Your standards. Your reactions. Your choices. You become strict with yourself because you finally understand that nobody is coming to save you. You have to get yourself out. And you keep going. Even when you don’t feel like it. Especially then. Until one day, you realize you’re not the same person anymore.
You have something inside you now. Something you built yourself. Something you fought for. Something you know you can lose if you start betraying yourself again. That’s when boundaries stop being something you have to learn. They just appear. Because now you know what it cost you to become this version of yourself. And once you’ve fought that hard to get yourself back, you stop letting people, situations, or your own weakness take you away from yourself again. You finally have something worth protecting. You have yourself. ❤️