Males think male jokes are funny across the board and don't stop to wonder why Women don't appreciate the humor (ie, fart jokes, Jackass show behavior, etc.).

You couldn't pay me enough to use a dating app. Gross.

These men know better too bc this isn’t something they do and say to random women in person

All of that. Even when I was looking for a fuck buddy, it was an issue. They don’t want you to want it. They’re also weird as fuck.

I have reported every man that has swiped on me and they are still on the app. There would be no men on the apps if the app companies had to take women reports seriously. In fact it is so bad that apps are allowing men to create fake profiled

I have stories like this young woman. That is why i'm not on them anymore.

Yea they weird, i went on a date with this one guy, he was about to have some medical operations or whatever, on the first date!

He was suggesting that i take care of him after his operation. Like wtf? 😵 Already thinking of free labor dawg.

Asking for nudity out of context, especially in a crude way that is not actually a question, is on the rape spectrum because the question itself puts a woman into a harm experience just from the thoughts and words. She can say 'no' after you ask (hopefully), but she had no opportunity to consent before you brought up the subject. It's on the rape spectrum. "Not all men."

Im old. I never used a dating app
I am so disgusted by what men say on dating apps , my heart hearts for the younger generations

It sounds like a perpetual test to see what they can get away with, and when these guys are called out for being inappropriate and a creep they say it's "just a joke BRO". No trust they are telling you what they are actually like, and how their minds are in the gutter.

I think men are just weird in general and online dating is just a sampling of the average man.

Pub if we reported every man who sent us dick pics the apps would go out of business.  Same if we reported every man asking for nudes.  Most men who match, do one of those two.

I had a guy, who fancied himself a dom, try to convince me to give my son away, so my daughter and I could move in with him to be his sex slaves. My daughter was 6 at the time. I reported him.

I got a message from a random man whose pp was a D pic. As soon as I saw it I screenshot it just barely before he changed it back to a normal face pic once he saw I saw it. I reported him.

The most normal guy I talked to I allowed to take me out to dinner. He was fine, but a little quiet, while we were out. When he pulled up in front of my place after he wasn't saying anything, kissed me once, and continued to sit there silently. I could tell he was hoping I'd ask him to come inside. I was much younger then, and lacked my current knowledge, and I thought it was weird that he expected to come inside when he didn't show a lot of interest all night, and couldn't even talk at the end of the night. I said my goodbyes, and never heard from him again.

There were many sex crazed weirdos and creeps, and many that didn't seem single. I ran into the woe is me incels back then too. They ruin everything.

Some of this is simply sex crazed freaks, but some of them get off on violating women in any way possible. Being gross and offensive is the point.

Dating apps are what started me on my celibacy journey. I was so exhausted from interacting with weird, perverted, and sometimes married men that I decided to take a “little break” for 3 months. That turned into 6 months. That turned into “this is so nice (not dating or dealing with men at all) that maybe I need a little longer. Let’s just play it by ear.” It’s now been 3 years and I have no desire to date AT ALL. Life is so peaceful.

I get the impression that most men just do not interact with women much at all. The average man has the most bizarre attitudes and ideas about women.

I'm a married woman but if anything was to happen to my husband. I would stay single forever. The dating scene today sounds awful. 😖

I briefly used dating apps. The anonymity made guys emboldened to ask for nudes, threesomes, fetish stuff, and demand a date with the threat of offing themselves if I said no. Lots of threats and r@pe/bdsm fantasizers. The worst was talking to a guy who was a radiology tech and he admitted that he fantasized about doing things to his female patients. Nope nope nope.

On dating apps, you are the product. The algorithm doesn’t want you to make meaningful connections, or else you’ll stop using the app and stop making money for the company.

My new conspiracy theory is that the ai is trying to get us to stop talking to each other by making our algorithms so diametrically opposed. When you interact with someone whose algorithm is different from yours, it's like you're living on two different planets and physics doesn't work on theirs.

When I was using apps, I would give a big eye roll of people looking for a serious relationship but barely had anything in their bio.

Like you want somebody who doesn't know who you are? But I guess that answers my own question 😅

I go to weekly therapy and still had to delete all the apps 😂 I am Agnostic and the amount of men who try to sell me on religion after saying the are not religious themselves is my weird thing. These guys are usually the ones who want multiple women/wives too, when they don't have and can't even get one to stick around because they are weird liars 🤦🏾‍♀️