I need to quit my job to have a chance to watch all Sam's 5-hour long videos

You are 💯 right. If you say no to them they will take it as a yes whether you like it or not but if they say no it is no and then they scheme up punishments to hurt you.

Well i have a story for you all . My ex told me that one of his friends told him that someone we knew and spent time with, their disabled child had passed away 😞😢,i was really upset 😞 so i went shopping to get a sympathy card and some other presents for the mother and the child who passed away 😔. Anyway my ex drove me round to her house,he stayed and waited in his car whilst i knocked on her door. This man answered,so i asked him where Claire was before i asked about her little boy !!!he replied " Claire is out at the moment with Charlie 😮😮 Charlie is the supposed child who was ment to of passed away 😞, lucky for me i hidden the present behind my back as it was dark at the time. I replied ok will you let Claire know that I have popped round,he said yes ok and we said our goodbyes!!!!. Well i jumped back into the car and said WTF 😒😒!!!! Why did you say this,he didn't show any emotion just a smirk 😏 and just blamed his friend, when i kept asking my ex before i went around to my friends if its true !!! And he swore blind it was true 😔. It's a good job i didn't just come out with everything or asked as could you of imagined what my friend would of thought and the trouble it could of caused. Im so happy it wasn't true and so happy that i didn't say anything at the door 😮. My ex didn't care about the disgusting lie or the upset it caused me or the money i also spent on presents and cards. I was absolutely go smacked 😮. Im so happy we finally split up,but he almost destroyed me before we did ,i lost a lot 😔 i almost lost my sanity 😞 and he still tries to hoover me and has stalked me. Anyway i have gone none contact and blocked him in every way that I can and its been half a year almost and its going ok . Ple if you're in a relationship with one of these people, watch your back and always do your research 😢as there veey crafty and sly and deceitful indeed 😔 and they have no consistency at all. Their like a bottle of coca cola with the top left off,and all the fizz has gone out 😊 basically " FLAT AS FXXK !!!!

32:45 this just solidifies that narcissists are "borderline" insane. Do not live in reality. I'm sure that's for the worst type of narcissist. And here I was holding hope for them.

Thank you so much for everything you do. You've been in my life for over 8 months and I have your book.

Ive watched all of this for a long time but inside can we not find a soul. This is too much for me

Any hole will do for the desperate narc as in my family.

Oh wow.

Can the narcissist  idealized 2 women at the same time?

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Im finding it difficult to understand this. Are they not souls and human. I contacted my ex and said he could love me in his head and i would do the same. I need help with this.please help

Brilliant 🎉

Would you be planning at some point to relay your thoughts on the psychology of the antisocial protagonist of the film 'Nightcrawler'? Since youve done a video on the Truman show and talented Mr. Ripley...
Again, very helpful material you provide Sam.

Could a true narcissist ever have enough compassion for another human being to sacrifice their own life for them? Even if they didn't want to die or believed they didn't deserve to die, could they ever believe that the other person deserved to live more?

If a narcissist cant love is he not loveable. Is he a monster ie a child of god..

May I ask please, in Freud’s theory, the person could be included in 3 categories:   Neurotic, Psychotic or Borderline which includes Perversion (= in the middle, a boarder state, not the Borderline Personality Disorder). Narcissist Personality Disorder is a type of Neurosis, or a type of board state or Perversion?