I’m waiting for the men to drop videos titled, “how I forgave my wife for cheating”.

The line about “He will cheat when things are bad” also applies to other unsavory behavior like physical violence and verbal abuse…

Kathy reeeeally irritates me, the language she uses is so manipulative "if there's a cancer in our relationship why am I going to throw out the patient" as if the cheater who is selfishly destroying several lives is somehow a victim that needs taken care of? never heard such BULL in my entire life... what the fuuuuck

"Because I love him" is WILD! He doesn't love you boo Da Fuq??! 🥴😭

If my mom left my father after he cheated (the first time) it would have been much less traumatic for me, than to watch her stay with him for years(while he kept doing his thing), destroying her sense of self and any self-esteem she might have had. Staying after cheating, especially if you have kids, can teach them that this sort of behavior is acceptable.  Just leave.

All these discussions only happen when it's the male who cheats. Women are expected to stay. Staying is "strength" ONLY when the male cheats.

The way that I know a betrayal will haunt me.. it's a no for me.

A cheater isn't worth the effort.

i wonder when if ever it will become acceptable and normalized to call cheating what it is - abuse. especially affairs. i'd never stay with someone that doesn't care about my informed consent to the relationship.

i got cheated on and stayed. he blamed me because i was busy with school. i had 6-8 years of school left. i broke up with him because i realized that he would always cheat on me when i got busy with studying and other school work

I don’t think people grasp how low character someone must be to be a cheater because it’s so normalized. I’ve had talks to serial cheater. These are people that master the art of betraying someone they claim to care about, finding better ways to hide it everyday. Someone comfortable sleeping and engaging intimately with a person they are stabbing in the back everyday.  Putting your LIFE at risk via crazy side chicks/guys or STDs. Nevermind the fact that someone who can cheat and betray you so easily could clearly never be trusted again. You have to deeply not care about your partner to cheat on them. I can’t believe society has normalized something so disgusting but I’m grateful I can just opt out of this nonsense.

Being cheated on is such a libido killer. And I don't want to imagine relationship or marriage without libido. So soulless and boring.

38:00 the house didn't just accidentally 'burn down', he set it on fire and burnt it down. and you're advocating to rebuild it and live in that house with a pyromaniac.

They act weird because they realize you don't have any self respect. Then they'll start pushing the boundaries

would he stay though if it was you or would he try to use that as grounds for murder due to temporary insanity? don't do for him what he would never do for you! ask him what he would do if the situation was reversed and watch that look in his eyes slowly shift....

Cheating is a conscious decision, with secrets, lies and disrespect. I can't and won't forgive it.

My first "serious" relationship was a toxic mess where he cheated on me continuously, including during my pregnancy. I was 19 at the time and my mom forced me to stay with him. They both isolated me from the rest of my family and I felt so trapped, and I only could get out once he died (thankfully only a year later). I am in a much healthier relationship now, but the moment my husband even starts entertaining another person I'm out ✌🏽

As a woman why would you torture yourself by staying with someone who cheated and having to constantly relive that over and over every time you see them. Could not be me

Also like.. staying isn't always best for the kids? My dad cheated on my mum when I was 2 and she stayed. He never changed, he never stopped cheating, and she never trusted him again. They eventually divorced anyway when I was 19, but growing up in that household screwed me up and is one of the main reasons I'm in therapy lol. If staying would mean destroying your mental health, and even resenting your kids because you stayed for them and now you're miserable, then by god please don't stay. That's not a fair decision to put on the shoulders of a child.

They'll find a reason to cheat.  It was an absolute deal breaker for me. Best decision ever to walk away