weaponised incompetence
The Queer Kiwi
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• learning parental behaviours and roles and where and how gender has an impact on that
• there are two options: a google doc and a downloadable pdf file
• the google doc asks for personal and specific answers so will need to be marked by the child, once marked submit the answers into the google form!
• the google form relies on self awareness and honesty, but is an easier option. you can just send the link to your parents/primary caregiver (or fill it out yourself if you are a parent/primary caregiver)
• preferably this will be filled out by a parent/primary caregiver, but you can fill this out on behalf of them if for any reason you cannot/do not want to pass it on to them, just be sure to say at the bottom of the form
• this can be filled out by any caregiver as long as they raised you/you raised someone (aunty, uncle, grandparent, family friend etc)
• you can fill this out if you are a sibling who feels they were overly parentified and took on the parenting role, just be sure to say so in the first question
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Those "man tasks" are complicated, NEED to be taught, repeatedly, and not exactly necessary to life. Not everyone NEEDS a car, not everyone is going to have a set of power tools, or a lawn to mow. And because they're "boy" tasks, they're probably not going to be taught to daughters.
When I experienced my first flat, I called my dad. He said "just change it."
I said "I don't know how."
He said "what do you mean you don't know?"
I said "you never TAUGHT me."
I absolutely hate not knowing how to do mechanical tasks that come up every so often.
But laundry? Shopping? That's independence.
Yeah, bro, that's how long grocery shopping takes.
I am immunocompromised and a wheelchair user, so I can't go out and do the shopping myself. My dad does all the shopping for our household. All he asks is that I am specific about anything I put on the list that I want. If I write "pickles", he will pick whatever type he thinks I'd want in the cheapest store brand available, whereas if I write "Vlasic Dill Spears", he will get me exactly that. Honestly, that's a fair ask.
weaponised incompetence
The Queer Kiwi
46,104 views
You can go to my sponsor https://aura.com/kiwi to try 14 days for free. That’s enough time for Aura to start scrubbing your personal info off these data broker sites, without you lifting a finger.
please participate in my survey about default parenting!!
about:
• learning parental behaviours and roles and where and how gender has an impact on that
• there are two options: a google doc and a downloadable pdf file
• the google doc asks for personal and specific answers so will need to be marked by the child, once marked submit the answers into the google form!
• the google form relies on self awareness and honesty, but is an easier option. you can just send the link to your parents/primary caregiver (or fill it out yourself if you are a parent/primary caregiver)
• preferably this will be filled out by a parent/primary caregiver, but you can fill this out on behalf of them if for any reason you cannot/do not want to pass it on to them, just be sure to say at the bottom of the form
• this can be filled out by any caregiver as long as they raised you/you raised someone (aunty, uncle, grandparent, family friend etc)
• you can fill this out if you are a sibling who feels they were overly parentified and took on the parenting role, just be sure to say so in the first question
• if a question isn't applicable, you can skip it
links:
downloadable google doc: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1G...
google form: https://forms.gle/KeuwGAT7xvwupakY6
the data so far is really interesting and i'm looking forward to analysing it and discussing it with you!
patreon: Patreon: savvycat
book channel: @qiwireads
second channel: @itsqiwi
podcast: @savvycatproductions9255
end screen song: https://open.spotify.com/track/6YMWp9...
my music: https://open.spotify.com/artist/7jEk4...
my music videos: @itsqiwimusic
instagram: Instagram: thequeerkiwi
twitter: Twitter: thatqueerkiwi
tiktok: https://vm.tiktok.com/3fGWhT/
business inquiries: thequeerkiwi@colossalinfluence.com
aftg andriel plushies from midgaardian on twitter (shop website: https://www.shopmidgart.com)