25:33 saying "you said you liked cleaning" to someone who is recovering from giving birth is like walking up to a soccer player and being like "why arnt you playing? You said you love soccer" meanwhile both their legs are broken

"you're gonna end up a spinster, alone with only your cats one day" don't threaten me with a good time guys

I had a coworker once who mentioned that he sometimes deliberately messed up on tasks so he wouldn’t get asked to do them again. I shared with him that, growing up, my parents’ response to doing a task badly was “okay, so now you get to do it again until you do it correctly”.

Simple standard: if your husband pretends not to be able to do something you can teach a little kid, he's not fit to be a husband.

I left my fiancée over this crap, I was working in health care during covid, in a team that should've been 7 there were 2 JUST TWO of us. And at the end of my shift id come home to Mr "remotely working from home" to a destroyed house and no food cause he'd snack all day and get mad i "didn’t have anything ready for dinner" cause he ate it during the day WHILE I WAS AT WORK.

LADIES 👏
WE👏
DESERVE 👏
BETTER 👏

Reminder for the millionth time, these are GROWN men.

I’m thankful that my step-dad sets a standard that if I do end up with a man, he has to be like him.
Just yesterday, he spent the entire day cleaning the whole house before he has to go on a business trip for a couple days because my mom is having surgery soon and wants her to rest comfortably. He makes meals without being asked, gets her flowers whether there’s a reason or not, he’s just an overall functional person that realizes what a partnership means.

The way flowers are usually closer to the door than baking flour

Whenever a man pulls this crap with me I ask them how they cope in their job. “Do you call your boss this often if they give you a task? Do you need to be micromanaged? How do you hold down a job?”
The men I know HATE the thought that they might be considered this stupid and incompetent in a professional capacity.

If my husband sent me a video of my children crying with him mockingly crying back and with a caption "who let me have kids lol?" that's an instant divorce. Because what the fck, you don't let a baby cry with neglect like that! It's gonna mess them up in the future even if they don't remember it

The putting the flour in the middle of the table is ICONIC

If your husband lets the house fall to pieces while you're sick for TWO DAYS, the only reason to kiss him once you're up and about, is if you're still contagious.

The second case is funny because the amount of work he dedicated to buying the flour was the same amount he would have expended buying the flowers. The only difference was that one path would lead to a happy day celebrating his mom's birthday, while the other would lead to divorce. And yet, he still chose to be a jerk to his wife. Serves him right. (He probably will now proceed to write angry texts on twitter complaining about feminism and "divorce culture").

Most videos of weaponized incompetence I seen, 9 out of 10 times I'm like "dump him. you deserve better! HE'S A CHILD! Take him back to his mother."

This… reminds me of my older brother. The other day, he asked me if I would make him some food and when I told him he can do it himself, dude looked me in the eyes and said “fine then, I just won’t eat” so I hit him with “starve then”

Why do men wonder and act confused when their partner doesn’t wanna be intimate with them when they act like this. Thank god I’ve not experienced this because I’d be gone like a flash

I've heard "You just need to communicate your needs better" like no. That makes no difference, and gets you called a nag. All the emotional labor in the world won't matter with someone who just doesn't care and views you as a servant.

I’m autistic with support needs and I literally I saw not being able to handle small things like this as the sign I needed professional help, not that my partner needed to do more.
It’s the entitlement that gets me

When our kids were newborns, my husband only gave them back to me to feed them. He babywore them to clean and cook while I recuperated.  He takes all four grocery shopping in order to give me time to myself. I couldn’t imagine being with any of the guys in this video.

5:57 Notice how, with the first couple, he played the “I can’t find the vegetables” card, clearly hoping for a free pass to go home. But I love her response—she offered to drive there herself and show him exactly where they were. Suddenly, like magic, he was able to find the vegetables. Wild. 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️