"Call the police. Stop recording."

Stop recording evidence? No.

I've had to save a woman I don't know, doing the "omg heeyyy I haven't seen you in so long!" Bit and my god when we finally got away from those men she hugged me so hard and cried into my chest. I'm a 6 foot tall woman with a Mohawk and a bit of a rough exterior, so they didn't even fucking try me. The look in her eyes when I first saw her was pure terror  and I think she knew I'd protect her. I probably saved her life that day. Feeling her shaking while we were hugging made me tear up. I cried when I got in my car to go home. Makes me tear up just thinking about it now.

Catcalling is rape culture. Being ‘persistent’ and thinking that it is charming to continually pursue someone who has already told you no, is rape culture.

“but u should have been mean, made it clear u weren’t interested”
ok.. so 1 time i was walking home in new Orleans, this douchey frat boy drove up so fast, slammed on his brakes, blocking traffic. started literally yelling at me how nice my legs were, calling me sexy, while also saying that i’d be prettier if i was blonde & demanded my number. i said “no, im married have a good day” in a stern voice. not even looking at him. no smile. just right to the point. & he said “idc if you’re married, i have more money than your husband!” & i then turned to him & said “NO! i just said NO! i’m not interested LEAVE ME ALONE!” in a half yell. clearly pissed off voice. dude put his car in park, got out & started following me while screaming about how i’m worthless & not even good enough to “date a homeless junkie” (his words not mine) & then proceeded to follow me down the street for another 30ft . we were already 2 houses down from my own.. so i’m freaking out like “where tf do i go so he doesn’t know where i live..” then a bystander got out, this older angel of a man & said “DUDE! SHE SAID NO! LEAVE HER ALONE! YOURE CORNY AF FOR THAT!” & then the guy screamed some names at him, that were borderline racist.. & then drove away. i was scared to even go home bc i didn’t know if he could still see me. so i sat in the driveway of a the daycare across the street for like 45 min until i knew he wouldn’t be back. i did both things. be nice & make it clear. both things didn’t work. so unkindly stfu to all of the losers who say “you did XYZ wrong” THERE IS NO RIGHT WAY WHEN THE PERSON IS A PSYCHO! HOW ABOUT MEN LEAVE WOMEN ALONE!? THAT SHOULD BE THE ONLY OPTION!

“What were you wearing?”

I was 6. He was my brother.

That alone should make the argument invalid.

Harassment is not complimentary.
As someone who has complimented people of all genders many times, compliments aren't the issue. Being a creep is the issue.

that comment that said "females: why don't men talk to us anymore" is so telling cuz I've never thought that, nor have I ever heard a girl friend of mine complain that men don't wanna talk to us. it's always the opposite - why ARE THEY still taking to us, leave us alone, pls

It was never about what you wore, im a hijabi, my friend is niqabi, we both have been hit on by creepy disgusting men. Were not even adults.

This is why my coworker just got fired 3 days ago for KISSING ME without consent knowing I have a boyfriend and he’s 25 years older than me 😅 and then he got mad at ME because I told my manager lmao

oh a more recent time a creep approached me was at walmart, right at closing. he walked up to me, said “omg your glasses are so sexy. i love red hair on women.. it’s just.. it’s like poison ivy from batman.. she’s my dream girl” EW! dude was probably 45-47yo. i was 28. i like.. didn’t know what to say. i felt like crawling out of my own skin. i said “okay, have a good night!” didn’t smile. just walked the other way. so then this dude proceeds to follow me around acting like we were both shopping for the same stuff. “omg i love that brand too! i was just going to grab them!” type shit. so then i decided to just walk the way i already went & abandon getting the rest of my groceries. it’s closing time again, so i couldn’t hide for long. so i go to check out. he comes up right behind me. i go to a self checkout register & after he starts scanning shit i pretend like i forgot something.. i waited in the clothing area until he was done hoping he’d leave. but then started freaking out that he’d wait outside for me. this man sat at the exit waiting for me. one employee said “is that your dad or stg?” & i’m like NO! & told him what happened. the guy then went outside, couldn’t tell where but i was worried he would then see my car, my license plate etc & be able to like.. search it up or something. the employee told 2 other employees & they all said “we’ll walk u out, just give us a sec to close up” so these employees all walked me to my car.. the guy was literally sitting outside his car smoking a cigarette when we came out. luckily i was parked far away from him so there was no way he could see my license plate if i left quickly. but yeah… fucken terrifying. that time i was scared to be mean bc he just had awful vibes. like, i knew if i were to be mean it wouldn’t have just.. ended w/out issue. i was already pretty rude & he still acted like i was interested. i have dozens & dozens of these stories. again, THERE IS NO RIGHT WAY TO REJECT MEN WHO ARE CREEPY BC ITS A LOSE LOSE & YOU NEVER KNOW HOW THEY WILL TAKE IT! women have been stabbed for politely rejecting men. women have been killed for sternly rejecting men. THERE NO RIGHT WAY TO PROTECT YOURSELF! THIS IS ON THE MEN. NOT THE WOMEN!

No one wants sexualized comments while they are walking down the street, exercising, shopping etc.

They know this, their intent has to be to intentionally make these women feel helpless and startled.

Karen went from angry old white lady yelling at kids at skate park , to woman that defends herself and IM TIRED. IM NOT A KAREN CUZ I HAVE BOUNDARIES. IM NOT A KAREN CUZ I WONT LET YOU HARASS ME.

When you said he asked for tattoos because it's a way for (possible) identification.  That shocked the shit out of me cuz I never thought of it that way.  The nightmare timeline continues.

Men say no one cares about men's emotions,  yet all i see is ppl caring, overcaring about men's emotions to the point they put women's lives at risk to protect them.

I'm not a woman (I'm gay emo man with soft features and long hair) and the unwanted attention from men who think I'm a woman??? Oh my God dude I'm so sorry to you girls. I've gotten in some really scary situations myself, nobody should have to go through it

Those guys “complimenting” the lady’s toes are 💯 on a list

my ex burger monarch manager told me to "just take the joke my fu**ing god" to my 28 year older male coworker locking me in the freezer until I accepted his flirting... I lowkey have trauma from being locked in the cold, dark freezer and this was the 2nd job ever where this happened to me

As a woman who was sa'd from 6 to 9 yrs old, I trust no man ever at first meeting.  Men please remember we know it isn't all men, but it is always a man. Full stop. We owe you nothing. As you owe us nothing.  If a large woman came up to a man who perceived himself a 10 and said hey Love your bulge, you are going to be rude, so suck it up buttercups we are not property no matter how much some religions and people think we are.

16:06 if anyone missed it the man that stepped in between the lady and the guy following her was on the phone with the cops. You can hear him describing the situation. So its really smart that she kept recording in case he did try to do anything else.

$70,000 a year to be a clown and men are out here just doing it for free