하나라도 더 해주려고 하지 말고, 단 한가지 '이것'에만 집중해 보세요 아이 스스로 달라집니다 | 존스홉킨스 지나영 교수 | 부모교육 자녀 양육 교육 사춘기 사랑 | 잠바시 7회
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Professor Gina Young, Johns Hopkins University, Director of the Jimaeum Institute
Lecture Introduction: "You can now let go of the illusion that you have to be a perfect parent to raise your child well."
Professor Gina Young, a Johns Hopkins child psychiatrist and diagnosed with ADHD in her 40s, shares her personal insights into the essence of life and parenting wisdom.
This interview explores the unchanging essence of parenting, from the magical "Kimbap Therapy" for disobedient children to the "Rice Cooking Therapy" that alleviates parental guilt.
If you're struggling with parenting and blaming yourself every night, I hope this video will help you discover your "good enough self."
✻ This lecture is presented in partnership with Simmons Bed.
Professor Jina Young's new book, "Essential Parenting for Distracted Children," available here
👉 Kyobo Bookstore: https://bit.ly/4q9cLbF
👉 YES24: https://bit.ly/4n4BriO
👉 Aladdin: https://bit.ly/43jNyS2
👉 Download the materials shared in the video for free
Ji-Mind Research Institute: https://www.ji-mind.com/channels/L2No...
[⏰Timestamp]
0:00 Highlights
0:58 Opening
1:20 A Psychiatrist Diagnosed with ADHD
2:07 An ADHD Doctor Even Experienced This Accident
4:12 If I Were Born Again, I Would Choose to Live with ADHD
6:52 "Could My Child Be Like This?" ADHD Self-Diagnosis Criteria
7:52 How Should I Explain ADHD to My Child After Being Diagnosed? 10:19 Common Symptoms of ADHD and Solutions: Working Memory Deficiencies
11:44 Disciplinary Techniques for Disobedient Children 1: The Kimbap Method
12:18 Disciplinary Techniques for Disobedient Children 2: Creating a Routine Chart Your Child Look For First
13:29 Disciplinary Techniques for Disobedient Children 3: The Timer
14:22 Two Types of Words You Should Never Say During Discipline, According to a Psychiatrist
17:07 How to Be a Good Parent: Rest Unconditionally
19:43 Perfect Parents Destroy Their Children
22:42 The Unchanging "Essential Parenting" in the AI Era
25:41 Essential Parenting: "This" Matters More Than Words
27:41 To Parents Who Can't Sleep, Blaming Themselves
29:03 Lullaby
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저도 같은 생각을 해본,
ADHD를 30에 진단받은 애들엄마인데요.
엄마가 나에게 관심이 없었단것도 너무 슬펐고, 학원만 다니던 학창시절도 억울하고요.치료를 학생때만 했더라면…..내 인생이 확 달라졌을텐데 싶고 많이 억울했어요.
그런데 그 이후에, “만약에 ADHD가 없었다면”을 떠올려보았는데요.
그럼 공부를 잘해서 지금보다 좋은 대학교에 갔을것이고, 다른학교에 갔다면 남편을 못만났겠죠…
성격이 지금과 달랐다면 우리 아이들을 만나지도 못했을거라 생각해요.
지금 키우고있는 작은아들은 사실 셋째인데요.
둘째아이가 태어난지 얼마 되지않아 아파서 떠난 뒤에 가진 아이에요.
그 아이가 건강했다면 지금 눈 앞에 있는 셋째도 못봤겠지요.
이런생각, 저런생각을 다 하다보면, 셋째는 우리 둘째가 주고 간 선물같은 아이인걸테고, 그 큰일을 겪으면서 사람을 거를 줄 알게되었어요.
게다가 그 일로하여금 우울증이 와서 정신과에 가서 ADHD를 발견하게 된 것이니까요.
그 많은 일들은 모두ADHD와 우울증으로 온것들이지만 그 덕분에 다 지금 제 아이들을 마주하고 살고있다고 생각해요…
그리 생각하고나면 원망같은건 없어지고, 그래도 사랑하는 아이들에 대한 애틋함이 남아주네요…
너무 힘들어보이는데도 챙겨주시려고 하셨는데 그게
한편으로 죄책감이 들었던것 같아요.
지금은 힘드니까 기다려.
라고 가르치는것, 경계를 가르치고
좋은좌절을 가르치는것 .
정말 도움되는 내용이예요❤
그리고 이번 컨셉.. 너무 귀여우세요! 같이 파자마입고 침대에 앉아서 듣는것같아요. ㅎㅎ
잊고산것들을 찾았어요
모든걸주기위해 애쓰고
더잘가르치겠다며
혼내기만한 부모라서 반성합니다
부모의본질 한번더 되새김하겠습니다
브레이크를잡게도와준다는것
개념을 딱잡았어요ㅜ
오늘도 아침에 한바탕하고 보냈는데 학교에서 돌아오면 잔소리보다 오늘도 수고했다고 따뜻하게 안아줄 수 있는 엄마가 돼야겠어요~
있는 그대로의 아이 모습을 사랑하는게 참 어려운 것 같습니다. 나조차도 누가 나를 바꾸려고 하면 싫어하면서 나는 아이를 바꾸려고만 했네요... 영상 감사합니다~~
--책을 읽고 학생들에게 도움이 되길 희망해봅니다🙏💪
하나라도 더 해주려고 하지 말고, 단 한가지 '이것'에만 집중해 보세요 아이 스스로 달라집니다 | 존스홉킨스 지나영 교수 | 부모교육 자녀 양육 교육 사춘기 사랑 | 잠바시 7회
세바시 강연 Sebasi Talk
162,928 views
Professor Gina Young, Johns Hopkins University, Director of the Jimaeum Institute
Lecture Introduction: "You can now let go of the illusion that you have to be a perfect parent to raise your child well."
Professor Gina Young, a Johns Hopkins child psychiatrist and diagnosed with ADHD in her 40s, shares her personal insights into the essence of life and parenting wisdom.
This interview explores the unchanging essence of parenting, from the magical "Kimbap Therapy" for disobedient children to the "Rice Cooking Therapy" that alleviates parental guilt.
If you're struggling with parenting and blaming yourself every night, I hope this video will help you discover your "good enough self."
✻ This lecture is presented in partnership with Simmons Bed.
Professor Jina Young's new book, "Essential Parenting for Distracted Children," available here
👉 Kyobo Bookstore: https://bit.ly/4q9cLbF
👉 YES24: https://bit.ly/4n4BriO
👉 Aladdin: https://bit.ly/43jNyS2
👉 Download the materials shared in the video for free
Ji-Mind Research Institute: https://www.ji-mind.com/channels/L2No...
[⏰Timestamp]
0:00 Highlights
0:58 Opening
1:20 A Psychiatrist Diagnosed with ADHD
2:07 An ADHD Doctor Even Experienced This Accident
4:12 If I Were Born Again, I Would Choose to Live with ADHD
6:52 "Could My Child Be Like This?" ADHD Self-Diagnosis Criteria
7:52 How Should I Explain ADHD to My Child After Being Diagnosed? 10:19 Common Symptoms of ADHD and Solutions: Working Memory Deficiencies
11:44 Disciplinary Techniques for Disobedient Children 1: The Kimbap Method
12:18 Disciplinary Techniques for Disobedient Children 2: Creating a Routine Chart Your Child Look For First
13:29 Disciplinary Techniques for Disobedient Children 3: The Timer
14:22 Two Types of Words You Should Never Say During Discipline, According to a Psychiatrist
17:07 How to Be a Good Parent: Rest Unconditionally
19:43 Perfect Parents Destroy Their Children
22:42 The Unchanging "Essential Parenting" in the AI Era
25:41 Essential Parenting: "This" Matters More Than Words
27:41 To Parents Who Can't Sleep, Blaming Themselves
29:03 Lullaby
--------------------------
For inquiries about speaking engagements with speaker Jinah Young 👉🏻 https://bit.ly/sebasi_speakers
Sebasi News & Lecture Registration 👉🏻 https://linktr.ee/sebasi
For sponsorship/content purchase inquiries, please contact sebasi@sebasi.co.kr
🎁 [Sebasi Store] Just like good ideas, good products change lives. 👉🏻 https://sebasistore.com/
📙 [Sebasi Life Questions] Complete your own autobiography by following the questions. 👉🏻 https://bit.ly/sebasi_books
Homepage 👉🏻 https://www.sebasiland.com
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