Ladies, don’t beg anyone to love you.

When my husband started doing this,  I told him,"You're training me to live my life without you."
He actually makes time for 'us' now. 😊

🗣« The divorce came out of nowhere »

They show us how to live without them, then act surprised when we prefer not to have our time wasted.

If he doesn't come home, he doesn't want to be a husband. That's it.

The freest and most single person alive is a married man.

Get divorced, He hates you

Matching their energy drives them nuts

Leave the house and go to a nice hotel.  Swim in the pool, order room service or go to a restaurant.  Never be his maid.

Ladies be his mirror 🪞

I was a single wife.  I never said a word.  I just stopped doing things.  If he didn't spend time with me I hung out with my family and friends.  If he didn't want to help me cook, I stopped cooking, etc. The best thing I ever did was leave.  I took him to the ER  after our divorce, and he refused help, so I let him struggle.   So relaxing, not being invested in someone who didn't appreciate me.  He mistook my kindness for weakness.  Bye Felicia 👋

I was a single wife and single mother. Twelve hours after his kid was born, he was out doing his hobby.  The only person he wanted to socialize with was his mom. I am now no contact.

Stay married and get your own life, hobbies, goals, and friends, or divorce him and still get your own life, hobbies, goals, and friends. 🥳🤸‍♀️🥳

It seems like they never listen when you try to talk, but they sure do notice when you change your behavior.

If the DOG is a better husband than your actual husband, you have changes you need to make.  Immediately.

That’s not a single wife life. That’s a married man treating his wife like she’s his Mom.

Heavy on the “I forgot” or “It slipped my mind”. Do not play your cards. Plausible deniability is your friend, Sis!

It's so sad watching her abandon herself every time he treats her like garbage.

Never buy into them saying “I’m not a mind reader!” When it comes to basic consideration.  That’s just them announcing they will never consider you and will never take responsibility for it, they’ll blame you for their abuse.  Don’t try to educate them.  Just leave.

This is what I went through in my marriage. I went to the movies by myself and ate in restaurants by myself. I did everything by myself. After being a single wife for three years I divorced his ass.