I think this type of lectures is far more important and relevant than sermons about the Divine in religious institutions, regardless of which religion. How is one to have a relationship with the Divine if we do not know how to have healthy relationships? There is no training to become a parent so it is a hit and miss enterprise. No wonder we have the problems we have in the world. This man is godsend.
i was lucky, i heard it in early recovery (6, 9 mo sobriety) along w/the 1st good psychotherapy (& last) i ever got, AND attendance at Spring Hill (eastern philosophy/western psychology) Ashby, MA
19:00- Great information for dating. 24:52 Thank you God this is heaven sent and exactly my situation. 33:40 Healthy families are going to be committed to something higher than themselves in a healthy way, service. 35:00 yep. You have to be able to feel how you want to feel. Not have to prove yourself, be dismissed or minimize your feelings. Telling the truth at any cost dealing with the problems that are happening, is the evidence of a healthy family. They have problems but they allow people to express, everyone gets a chance to talk, and they deal. Unhealthy families don’t deal they avoid and escape. Blame and manipulate. We aren’t blaming people but we are calling them to address their personal responsibility. 44:32 Wow. 45:57 The neglect family yup 52:04 True intimacy is not possible of conflict is not possible. You can’t be yourself. This is where emotional health is formed, where A healthy family can hold space to feelings, emotions and personal responsibility. 54:00 🔥🔥 children are not your possessions. They are God’s creation and expression. They come through you but you don’t own them. They do not belong to you. You may house their bodies but not their souls. You may give them your love but not your trauma. Their souls are in the image of God . You may strive to be like them but don’t try to make them like you…your meeting your evolutionary vocations. He’s preaching right here. Amen🔥 That’s what healthy families teach