25 & Single in Japan 🇯🇵 | No Dating for 4 Years

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hachisuke-daily life in Japan

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I'm 25, and I haven't dated anyone for about four years. This is something I've never really talked about here, so today I tried to work out why. Not money, not bad luck — mostly my own choices, and one thing I still can't resolve: in Japan, marriage starts following right behind every relationship, and almost every story I hear about married life is a negative one.

I'm Hachisuke, a 25-year-old low-income office worker living alone in Japan.

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⏱ CHAPTERS
0:00 Intro
0:36 Today: dating and marriage
0:56 What these four years were like
1:24 When marriage started following dating
2:08 I do want to marry. And children.
2:44 The parents I hear about
3:40 Marriage started to feel like a chain
4:04 So I don't know what dating is
4:40 Up at 4AM, asleep by eight
5:04 And I might leave Japan next year
6:20 Being alone is fine, but
6:40 So how about you?
7:26 Thank you for watching the Australia video
7:50 I gained 4kg
8:30 Training every day until New Year
9:53 I finally bought creatine
11:20 Poor-man's pasta
11:40 I stopped breaking the pasta
13:31 Too much salt, not enough vegetables
15:05 Nine tablets at once
15:56 A wart on my finger
17:25 Back to reality after the trip
18:49 Even Antarctica gets boring
19:05 Let's give October everything

💬 QUESTIONS FOR YOU
1. Are you dating? Married? Or on your own?
2. What do you actually want?
3. What are you planning to do from here?
4. Where are you watching from today?

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📺 ABOUT THIS CHANNEL
I'm Hachisuke — a 25-year-old Japanese salaryman living alone in a small apartment, trying to eat well, train, save money, and not fall apart. No filters. Just real daily life in Japan. Slow paced. No hype edits. New videos every week.

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