Dates when men act up:

- Valentines
- The day before or week of your birthday
- The whole month of December ( to avoid buying your something for Christmas or starting a petty fight to spend NYE with his friends)
- Honorable mention: His birthday, when you doesn’t want to spend it with you.


I’m good focusing on myself and my needs each and every day. He can miss me with the stress.

Single ladies, you have missed out on nothing but disappointment.

I broke up with a guy right after he cut me off during the holidays and resurfaced afterward. I care more about respect.

I would like to thank every woman out there who showed their bad dating experience to make 4B women like me that I'm not missing much and even dodged a bullet by staying single

Iam single and booked myself a spa overnight stay

I’d rather celebrate Galentines lol

I spent Valentines day trying to fix my car in the winter cold. When I got home I was so cold I had to crawl under my blankets and eat hot soup to heat up.
Still better than waiting for a call that doesn't come.

Me & My Bestie celebrated Happy 'Gal'entines Day. A man 4 what?......😂😂

That guy sent her a gift at midnight??? He spent the whole day with someone else and sent a half assed gift literally the next day

The things women will put up with just to say they have a man…

I have to laugh. 😂 These are the same “happily coupled” women that will talk down to single women and act like they’re sooo special because they have a man and can’t be alone… I really don’t feel bad for them.

I bought $1000 worth of gifts for myself I’m satisfied 😌

5:46 A WHOLE WOMAN (CO-WOKER) gave her those flowers!!!! SMH!!! I feel bad for her!!! That’s ridiculous. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Praying she gets away from him! 🙏🏾

As a single woman I had a wonderful Valentine’s Day all my boyfriends showed out. Stop being with men who don’t like you and are never shy about showing it

I just took myself to my favourite hotel & spa and pampered myself. I went to a beautiful resturant for dinner, I went exploring the place I was staying, bought myself homemade chocolates and my favourite flowers and I had an awesome time. I got dresses up, enjoyed the books I've been neglecting to read and saw the dance show I've been dying to see.

Trust me ladies, if has not made any plans nor told you where you are going and when 1 week to 48 hours before Valentines, go do you! Leave him on silent. Don't say nothing, just pack and go without a word. Then break up with him when you get back. Act like you could not care less!

I’m saving this for my next year. Cause gurl most of the women I knew didn’t do nothing or got nothing. These men ain’t shyt out there cause WTF?
I had a great Valentine’s Day getting my beauty sleep.

My god, I don't even remember what stress is since I completely stopped dating/talking/ even lookin" at men.

Peace is more addicting.

St patricks day has better energy.

I dont know why clubs do not wise up and have a Valentine's Day singles party after 8pm, where all single women get in free, and the cover charge for men is 5$. Hire a good DJ,  offer 5$ drinks and 3$ beer, and stay open till midnight. Then if a guy doesn't step up in some way for his woman , go "Bye, boy", dress up, and go possibly find your new guy at the party. And def let your current guy know where you'll be!! 😁

I saw my Therapist and be had my cup of hot chocolate for me and i brought two donuts and my  ex lover texted me and i didn't fold..basically healing was my gift

Being single is nice ladies! 💅💅😍