Being beautiful will gain you an audience but you must do the internal work.

women don’t use their “beauty currency” because the patriarchy has used SHAME to ensure only THEY can exploit OUR beauty. it’s so engrained in our society that even women shame each other.

All of you all are damn straight. I've always kept myself up. I attracted a well-to-do husband at age 57 ( 2nd marriage, )because I kept myself up. I was able to retire early and enjoy my life now doing whatever I want to. Believe me, I'm still keeping myself up to this day.🚶🏾‍♀️🏋🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️❤️🙏🏽

She cracking me up dusty, crusty, musty

Love this topic. I’ve spent years ignoring my beauty and downplaying it because I was severely abused by women in my family, and realized they only did it because of the attention I received. Male centered women are so dangerous. But now as I’ve left that environment, I’ve slowly started embracing my beauty, allowing myself to be seen and admired, and avoiding jealous envious women, and people in general.

Taking care of our well being, health and vitality is the #1 priority. You can't ever put a man above that

My theory on the women who claim to have lost themselves is because they let men come before their self love. Don't ever fall into that trap ladies.. it's so easy to self sacrifice for the ones we love but in the end you are the one who pays the price

I like what that lady said about beauty actually never fades. There are many ways to maintain vitality and a radiant aura even as time goes on.

Girl, I know women at 80 who can find a widowed man that is generous. I see it all the time, but if you don't keep up, life will pass you by. That is 💯. Also doesn't mess with the wrong man it will hurt you at the end take this advice to the bank.

If the woman at 2:50 wants to teach me beauty tips I'll listen forever

I’ll put this on a more simple scale - I went from 235 to 190 and my entire life changed simply because I became disciplined and cared about myself.  Do with that what you will.

She killled ☠️ me with the “Rollie pollie “ 😂😂 get it togetha ladies ❤ 😘

I get way more attention when i don't do this. I exude natural beauty.

5:17 😂😂” People are dying “

Exactly ladies! There were hard truths spoken in this post and it is much appreciated! 👏🏼

Some people treat you worse if you're attractive.

The girl who's quoting the bible verses is speaking 🗣️ the truth beauty is Ur currency sis😂❤❤

I'd rather think in the frame of mind as Dolly Parton. Oh she was indeed a beautiful person in terms of her character as I discovered upon her death but listen to why and how she invested in her appearance. Look at how she carried herself up until the day she died. She is an inspiration in actually not only her character but how she kept herself up for her entire life REGARDLESS of her age.

You know the funny thing about all this is, some people would actually think that this very concept is superficial or people need to do cosmetic alterations and surgeries in order to be considered beautiful if they aren't pretty or to enhance their beauty further. The fact and point of the matter is this... as a woman, beauty IS indeed our currency and really, whether you're born pretty, beautiful, or gorgeous or look average or even below average/ugly, you as a woman are going to intrigue or appeal to someone when you elevate your outer appearance for the better which again, it doesn't have to involve cosmetic surgery or procedures. In other words, you may be average or below average but makeup can enhance your looks for what it's worth. Working out and staying fit, having your hair neatly styled or done very nicely, dressing well, being a beautiful person in terms of character and being kind are all the things a woman can bank on because those are all beautiful habits, traits, and characteristics and can compensate for where she lacks and have no control over. So if you don't have the natural beauty, elevate where you can, to make your other forms of beauty stand out.

Amen and Amen so of have it some dont i was always told this is Dam.true 🎉🎉🎉❤❤

23:30 so ur telling me im pretty😂😂??

3:41 - Financial independence is the MOST important thing a woman can do to live her life as she sees fit. Does beauty help that, yes. However, will money help you be more beautiful?? Absolutely! No matter how pretty you are, you never want to be poor, financially dependent on anyone else or financially messy. Never! Because you’ll be a pretty bird in a gold cage when you depend on a man for money. GAIN your financial independence first! It helps to pay attention to how you present yourself for sure. So yes, keep yourself up and play up your best assets but get that $$!!