I have been single and celibate for 12 years! No dating, no sex and no talking to any men period! My ex was the devil, what I allowed and the way I was treated. I am still traumatized and ashamed. But it taught me a lot. For the last decade I have been working on myself, emotionally, physically and spiritually. I bought a house, became a nurse manager, learn boundaries, mastered confidence and self esteem. Now I have no tolerance for disrespect, BS and fake shit! I am happy and at peace. God is in control!
Men need to come to you healed and with money, no exceptions. Your job isnt to build a bear and struggle. A man is to supposed to make your life better and easier and allow you to bask in your feminine energy while he takes on the masculine role
I learned that men play the long game. They will stretch out the gaslighting until you are compromised so much to the point that you can't find your mind. Every time I see a homeless woman there is always a man right next to her. Even while homeless, she is the only one sustaining the "relationship." Once she falls dead or gets sick or whatever, he moves on to the next woman and repeats that pattern. I'm in my rest and healing seasons. That's where I will stay.
My ex all of a sudden got a nose ring, purchased the things I talked about wanting for his home, started dressing more alternative like me (he was a polo shirt wearer) and started wearing cologne that’s similar to my perfumes after we broke up. He wanted to be me and it’s the craziest thing when you find this out. Absolutely crazy!
Ex leaving years ago was a blessing.. made more money than ever, got my own apt, own car, enrolled in school, credit up +150, body right, hair longer than ever, peaceful & happy! 💕
My ex did this to me. We've been broken up now for only 2 months and good God do I look waaaay better and feel so much lighter. Never again will I "build" with a man. I'd rather die than be with a dusty omg.😅
Narcissistic men 100% steal your energy and it can kill you. I was so physically drained to almost that point. Love and put yourself first sisters. A good man will come when you are whole and undefeatable ❤️💐
These Men Will Make You Raggedy...**How My EX Had Me Looking**