I just love this actor, very much so. He was charming and very handsome. I admire him as a great actor. All that fuss and nonsense about his private life , after having read about him and seen many t v. programs and documentaries ( including the Arena's wonderful The Private Dirk Bogarde ) interviews and the lot, I do think is because he was a homosexual and that, regretfuly , still arises a lot of morbid interest towards his private persona. He wouldn' admit it openly in public for quite obvious reasons, and he was in his right to do so. His and his parter's long love relationship was extraordinarily beautiful.
Thank you from me also. I fell in love with him at age 9, that’s 66 years ago. I still listen to his audiobooks narrated by him when I want perfect company, but I cannot understand why his nephew, Brock, who inherited his estate can’t see the commercial wisdom in contracting narrators to produce his entire book collection. Many of my age group would be willing customers.
As a young man, I did receive some attention from men who were not heterosexual — which at first left me rather uneasy, until I realised that my own sensitive persona, for those times, was simply inconceivable.
Bogarde's superb artistry helped society become less insecure about sex — which should never define anyone, just as we don't feel the need to ponder the intimate relationships of heterosexuals. He was admirably able to entertain, to dismantle prejudice that stemmed from insecurity, and to maintain his rightful dignity throughout.
I should add that the most interesting men I've conversed with have been gay — but I hope these categories come to an end. Human relations remain human. The real problems of humanity are the same as ever: poverty, war, and loads and loads of unjustified suffering.
Timestamps: 5:31 Esther Waters (1948) 6:47 The Blue Lamp (1950) 8:35 So Long at the Fair (1950) 10:36 Appointment in London (1953) 11:22 Doctor in the House (1954) 13:36 The Sleeping Tiger (1954) 15:50 Simba (1955) 17:27 A Tale of Two Cities (1958) 18:55 Libel (1959) 20:15 Song Without End (1960) 22:05 Victim (1961) 23:43 HMS Defiant (1962) 24:43 I Could Go On Singing (1963) 26:44 The Servant (1963) 28:39 King and Country (1964) 29:58 Darling (1965) 31:32 Modesty Blaise (1966) 32:43 Accident (1967) 34:05 Oh What a Lovely War (1969) 34:55 The Damned (1969) 37:21 Death in Venice (1971) 38:29 The Night Porter (1974) 39:58 A Bridge Too Far (1977) 40:46 Despair (1978)
As expected, ”The High Bright Sun” (1965) was not mentioned, which is annoying as it happens to be my personal Bogarde favourite. I think it has never been acknowledged due to his part not being ”deep” enough i.e. it’s not a pretentious movie at all.