“Gone are the times that you should be silent when Injustice is happening to you”

Sis you can rebuild over and over again YOU are the brand YOU are the BUSINESS. IT IS YOU NOT HIM NOT THE BUSINESS YOU. Remember that

Crazy how people who were once in love can become their worst enemies

Marriage is too emphasized in our communities. Decenter men from your lives ladies because if marriage is meant for you it will happen without you forcing the issue, if not it’s probably for the best. I pray everything works out for you and your children

Habibati 1 advice........ start Surat al BAQARAH immediately!!!

FIGHT sister! Fight to keep what’s yours!

Sadly Muslim men want the islamic way for women and from women but want the western way when it comes to their own benefit.

The most admirable thing in all of this is your unwavering faith and trust in Allah. And for that, Allah will prove your belief in Him right and will open even bigger doors for you, both in your heart and in your life, inshaAllah. May Allah make this process easier for you and your kids.

THE MAN YOU MARRY IS NOT THE MAN YOU DIVORCE.Never ever move for a man. thank you for sharing your story sis. I hope this becomes a lesson for the newly wed sisters.

" Women are tested when a man has nothing. A man is tested when he has everything".

He was punching waayyyy above his weight.  May Allah swt protect you and your children ❤

Manal. I went through similar situation as you. Even though we were married for only 5 years, i still had to pay him $130K.
But you know what i still worked hard amd provided a comfortable life for me and my two boys while he is still struggling. The money they take will be a curse to them. Keep your head high ❤

Also as a pakistani woman myself can I just say, his and his family’s approach does not surprise me. Muslim by name fr. They’re notorious for shaming and policing daughter in laws/wives, LET ALONE a future ex-wife/ex-daughter-in-law. I’m so so sorry you’re going through this.

Even if he wins in the court of law, he will not win in the court of Allah. Sending love and strength to you Manal. You are a brave woman.

Being overly considerate in helping a man financially especially if you’re the bread winner, they will start to become jealous and resent you, it’s so weird. So now when the marriage is coming to an end he wants to snatch it all away from you. We pray that doesn’t happen & if it does you will be better of than him in noooo time

I’m not Muslim, I’m a Roman Catholic, but nonetheless I am going to pray for you in my nightly prayers, pray your children and you are safe and that justice prevails for you. I’ve watched you for 10 plus years on here and know you have a friend in ME. You are strong, and beautiful and smart and you will come out the other side even more amazing and strong than you already are.❤️

If he keeps that money. It’s haram money. Will bring no good into his life!

That man does not fear Allah. That’s the bottom line, he does not care about anything else.

The idea of getting a prenup is so stigmatised in the Muslim community, but this is literally how men and women can protect themselves and their future children.

Also no offence, but this man was seriously punching!!! And he probably knew that. No way a secure man would come after his wife’s and children  money and security like this.