As a woman living in Middle East , I really don't understand western women who move to Middle East for some guy like wtf is wrong with you.

In Canada the 3rd biggest killer of women is husbands.

The only reason why men in patriarchal theocratic countries have not taken the red pill is because they don't need to. The whole premise of the red pill is that you take it to escape the dominant culture. If the dominant culture already agrees with patriarchal values then you're not red pilled, you're just a regular person

where's the trend shaming the men who ABUSE WOMEN 🧐

There’s a British woman sitting in death row in the UAE right now for killing the man who trafficked her. I think some Westerners have such a bias towards liberty that they can’t fully comprehend that other cultures are different on a FUNDAMENTAL level, and not always for the better. A lot of times for the worst.

Let's not call domestic abuse victims bird brained pleaseeeee it can make you act in ways you wouldn't normally

i was 19 years old, in a DV situation with my ex husband. i called the police, my parents. NOBODY helped me. I had to stay with this man 5 years until I had enough money to leave

Having witnessed some birds build a nest from scratch, lay eggs, hatch them, raise them, and teach them how to fly, I can no longer in good conscience use "bird" as a slur. Birds are very smart and survivalists (and their males are committed). Need a new insult.

patriarchy running so deep that alex would reject the love from thousands of women for the promise of love from a man 😭

They believe that physical violence is a sign that he cares. It ain't right, but that's the mindset. Better to be hit than ignored.

You're so right about the privilege of being loved as a child! In my 20s I just couldn't understand why some of my friends tolerated horrible behavior from their boyfriends, or generally, had a lot of problems that were ultimately rooted in low self esteem. To me they behaved irrationally, and while I never judged them for it, I could not understand them. Then I learned how different was my childhood from theirs. I realize now that I was truly blessed. I'll never take it for granted anymore, as I know now that unfortunately so many children grow up feeling unloved, emotionally neglected, and lonely. And those scars take so much time to heal, and intention, otherwise they never go away and keep people from truly blossoming.

I remember my ex hit me, and I fought him back & ended up getting in trouble 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️. I was super young, but if I could go back in time I would’ve called the police! 🤦🏽‍♀️ CALL THE POLICE LADIES SERIOUSLY

A  "bird" is old, old black slang that my great-grandmother used. I fear the slang is being appropriated and misused for every women who is male-centered, like the word "pickme," which will make it lose its original meaning. Birds are women who will lose all their self-respect to keep a man. She would literally put her family, children, and friends in harm's way to stay with that man. She lacks self- respect and thinks that "her" man hitting her means that he had to feel so much anger because he loves her, and the only way he could express his emotions is abuse. It's weird as hell, but that's the way a bird thinks. They don't care if their man cheats on them because he comes home to them. It's all about being chosen and kept at any cost.

I actually do have a theory. Sometimes woman sees DV as a badge of honor because they believe it to be a testament of love. they equate this sort of wild violent behavior as a proof of love. examples of this thought process "girl my man said if he ever caught me cheating he would sKILL us both, coochie too good" "my man would rather die than let me leave" "my man love me so much, he would he would hurt anybody about me" anyways thats just my theory

When I was a child my mom showed me the movies "not without my daughter" & "sleeping with the enemy" to warn and teach me about men.

Not Without My Daughter is now free on Youtube. It will be mandatory watching for my future daughters.

It's wild to me that this woman thinks that American men are too red-pilled to date, but men from a culture where women are violently oppressed are fine

For these women, I suppose being with a man is better than being single. It's scary and sad.

Edit: I agree that it feels safer to be in cahoots with a known devil than an unknown angel.

Sending love and prayers to all the women in unsafe situations and hoping you'll find the courage to choose yourself and leave.

As a child of a mom who was in a dv situation I realized it was deep mental illness stemming from childhood and abusive parents she hated herself and almost felt she deserved it cut to years later post divorce she got into a same dv situation with a younger man that was coveted so she felt chosen regardless the violence she felt special even though he physically hurt her and cheated on her… it’s a serious deep underlying issue and I feel so bad for these women because they are so unaware! It’s seriously scary it’s mental failure and trust no one but themselves can get them out of it

If you’re a woman who has had any type of abuse as a child please see a therapist before you date, trust me sis it’s not normal for a guy to treat you like that