Hey, so I found you guys through your throne of Glass recaps. I enjoy your respect for each topic you discuss. From books to submitted questions you maintain empathy while deep diving and providing advice. It is powerful.
To the girl/anyone being pressured by your partner, I have been with my now husband for 10 years. I have my own hangups around intimacy due to PTSD. He has never pressured me for more even when we go through gaps. There are men out there that will understand whether you have a diagnosis or not. There are men who will stop mid hook up just because you asked them to. Do not settle for a man who makes you feel pressured to do anything you aren't comfortable with no mater how long you have been together.