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why you lose friends when you level up | friendship breakups, moving on, detachment, feeling lonely

Jaz Turner

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A friendship breakup is just as, if not worse, then a romantic breakup. it can cut deep, it can have you questioning yourself, and it can eventually leave you feeling lonely. And a lot of times, at least in my experience, I come to lose friends when I start to focus on leveling up my life.

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20 Comments

@jricrianne 1 year ago

I had to let go of my entire friend group over the years and I even cut some family off. At this point in my life, I am looking for quality over quantity. I don't need people who are always trying to hold me at their lower level. I am all about growth and development even if I have to do it alone.

@MaddieAndMaya27 1 year ago

It’s crazy because I’m friendly and a true friend to many but hardly anyone is a true friend to me. Women tend to become jealous FAST and I hate that. 😢

@elizabethjohnson8072 1 year ago

Anything that hinders you from the life you want, the mindset you want, who you want to become.. leave it, the person place or thing

@Weshmorrey 1 year ago

Never forget that in a group of friends, not everyone is going to be successful. But as long they have a good heart and good intentions for you, make sure you keep em around. Friendship isn’t about the title, the money, the big house, the foreign car or the opportunity it’s about integrity, loyalty and peace.

@MandyJRoss 1 year ago

Old chapters have old characters that just can’t continue into the new narrative with you. And that’s okay. Write yourself a new story with new characters who are more aligned with your happy ending. You deserve it, Queen.✨💖

@ellebourgjoly5942 1 year ago

I have learned with time that Individuals who value authenticity, intimacy and loyalty rarely find themselves in friend groups. Friend groups are nice to travel with or entertainment but its usually surface level friendships involving quiet competition and gossip.

@AURAcurated 1 year ago

2024 was Isolation ♡

@LisavanDarling 1 year ago

The timing is crazy

@kaylasmanifestationbeautybar 1 year ago (edited)

The conversation we needed to have! This summer I broke up with my boyfriend, let him take our dog, and I cut my good friend off. I was thankful because it was a weight off my shoulder but I was hurt losing all 3 of them at the same time. I found myself grieving and spending more money at the bars just trying to heal myself. Then I locked in with my glow up journey and journaling & just knew I couldn’t recieve what God has in store for me if I don’t let some things go and stay in the past.

@denisechambers5966 1 year ago

I’m a 50 year old woman, I love your content about glowing up.

@Thejazsantiago 1 year ago

If you are ever afraid to tell someone your good news then they are BAD NEWS and that’s your intuition protecting you.. letting you know that this is not your person.

Those folks served their purpose. You became friends because there was a happy medium when it came to your frequency. The moment you elevate and they don’t wanna take flight.. you can still love them from a distance. You’ll just know your place with them. ❤

@Fid869 1 year ago

The party about being afraid to tell friends about good news….people want to see you do well- as long as you dont surpass them

@hopeeelizabethh 1 year ago (edited)

This resonated with me so much. Friendships ending has felt so devastating to me, but I have a sense of peace because I know that we’ve honestly just grown apart. I’ve made a new friend along the way who aligns more with where I am now. Love this chat so much!

@lifewithmstaylor 1 year ago

Been realizing this for the past 2 years. It is heartbreaking but necessary for the glow up👑

@Samantha4yaa 1 year ago

I’ve had friends for 20plus years and we were not always at the same “level” or place in our lives. True friendships still have a connection no matter what chapter of life you’re in. Sometimes there is distance because of this, but when you all link up again, it’s like no time has passed. ❤

@heytheredeliilaaa 1 year ago (edited)

as soon as things feel unaligned i distance and cut off. it’s no hard feelings, but energy and different levels of thinking affect us whether we want to believe it or not ❤

@marie2x-h3t 1 year ago

2025 is going to be full of blessings i love that for me😊

@cassandra7073 1 year ago

Girl this is literally me right now. It sucks having to go through friendship break ups after u become close to someone and u think that’s gonna be a friend for life. But I am tired of being mistreated by friends and getting backhanded comments when ur the one in their corner. Then u start distancing yourself and now you’re the villain like chile pls. Thanks for the video resonates 100%. To new beginnings and amazing 2025 for us all❤

@nicelookash 1 year ago

This year people had to fall off and God opened my eyes. I had to cut people off or set MAJOR boundaries. But in the end im happier. So dont fight it because thats where the pain comes from