Cutting some friends off and creating room for new ones has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

I had a friend that would constantly trauma dump on me. So much so that I would avoid her phone calls. When I finally decided to communicate to her what the problem was, she didn’t receive it well.

I feel so isolated at times. I never had a solid girl group. I keep to myself because I see people’s true colors now. I’m definitely going to start implementing your tips! Thank you for sharing!

I have a so-called “best friend” who only remembers I exist when she has news for me. She rarely reaches out to check-in. When I check-in with her, it takes her weeks to reply. Also, when she meets new people, it’s as if I don’t exist. I won’t hear from her for months, and then I’ll receive a message starting with
“OH MY GOD JENN…”

Girl, I have a toddler now, I’m too exhausted chasing him around, I ain’t got time for this! 😂

She has definitely been demoted from best friend, she doesn’t know how to be one.

Correct! It’s ok to not make a bestie every time and I’m learning this!

This is 100% your look. It’s giving Elite Barbie😎

I find it very hard to make female friends, easier with men. For me to be friends with a woman, we really have to have a lot in common and think alike. I find many women not liking me, I think I intimidate them, I have this boss chic aura and then the jealousy and competition enters (something I don’t need). Once I notice that it’s deuces !

Thank you for this video. Insecure women don’t make good friends! I can’t wait to make friends with women who love themselves and KNOW they’re all that like me!

Life has definitely been different for me after having a kid but I’m more focused on self development and self care so this video came at the perfect time

Hi Valie does not mean expensive. It does not mean wearing expensive clothing or accessories. It means having self respect, being loyal to those close to you, and those commited to improving themselves as human beings, not just materially.

True! My friend of 25 years started acting funny and stopped talking to me after I got married last year. I still cry and she’s right - it IS devastating

I really needed this. I have a friend who is so unhappy with her life that every conversation is her angry and complaining. I don’t mind listen but it’s constant venting with no efforts to find a solution. It’s so draining.

My closest friends were great until I started becoming more successful. Taught me I do not want anyone in my life that is in an unhealthy competition with me. Being inspired is way different from being envious and fake. And I’ve learned that mental health is important for everyone. So important things I put on my list is are TRUST, an equally yoked friendship. Someone who will show up for me genuinely not just to be in my business , have leverage over me or have the satisfaction of seeing me down. I also want people who will make an effort to have healthy communication and loyalty. I don’t want to be the therapist friend who is the only one trying to solve issues in the group unless the group is going to do the same in return. I don’t do anything to receive anything in return. However it’s truly exhausting being the one doing all the pouring into others and no one is pouring into you.

It's crazy to me how much so many of us want meaningful freiendships, yet we remain without them for so long. Here's to never giving up on finding our girlfriend tribe! ❤

Sis you are speaking my language, so many friends I let go of because of it being a one sided relationship, which became Uber draining. I now have a friend who I met online via me doing business and we have become such great friends although we live in different states. We are ambitious women and we support each other via encouraging words when we are dealing with romantic relationships, family members or our business ventures. I made it a point to become the person I want to attract, I don't wait for someone to speak positive affirmations to me I speak them over myself each morning after I thank God for waking me up. Loving this video❤ 🔥🔥🔥Subscribed!

I also like doing activities on the first date, because sitting in front of each other is just too awkward!
I joined bumble bff and nobody wants to do activities! they just want to "grab dinner or drinks".
And finding classy girlfriends is even harder!

I had a friend who I did so much for. Like I went above and beyond yet when I went thru the darkest period in my life she was nonexistent. Barely checked in. Then tried to one up and say she was going thru her own shit to notice mine rather than take accountability for her actions. I had to cut ties because not only did she ghost, she didn’t even try to actively make amends after I told her how I felt and and I realised I was the one keeping the relationship alive lol

So true. You are who you hang around.

I’m a man who’s looking to make both male and female friends and it doesn’t matter because I still found this video super helpful, would recommend to anyone 🙏

The therapist friend!  Yaaaaaaaas!  People (especially selfish people) will try to hold your ears hostage and suck up all your energy.  On a spiritual level these people are literally energy vampires!! 😡