Hope you enjoy the video and learn a lot from it. Here is the link to some of my best lines, that I promised in the video: https://www.toddvdating.com/lines

There’s a guy named Harry Mordert who says that, when it comes to dating, the most important thing for a man is his energy. I completely agree with him, because if a man is completely disconnected from his masculine energy, he won’t have much success with women. For example, the concept of the “fun state” completely changed the way I interact with women. I can confidently say that it changed my life.

It's a decision to be FUN, PLAYFUL, and LIGHT in your interactions. Love that foundational tip.

"Uhm er uhh uhh umm I like your uhh i like your eyebrows-"
- My dumb ass
EDIT: I PULLED HER

As someone that started following Todd years ago, listen to whatever he says and you WILL get women. Follow everything he says even if you think it sounds silly. Since listening to him I’ve been able to get women easily and I’m getting married next week, just saying

What I learned:
Children are flirty and teasy naturally. Be like a child that wants to be playful. Be audacious, it helps to be bold; that's better than being boring.

Formats for flirting lines:
1. Push-pull
2. Exaggeration (saying something in a exaggerated way that clearly can't be taken seriously)
3. Mini cold read (playful interpretations)

4. Future adventure projection (crazy ridiculous story of what happens in the future, kind of like a combination of all of the previous 3)

Let these be a spice to your life. Know when to flirt or to not. The goal isn't to flirt 24/7.

Flirting is SO much fun when the girl is loving it too.

And always flirt with a cheeky grin on your face!

14 years of game and i still come back to todd's stuff. No information overload, 90% action 10% learning.

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:

00:30 🎉 Flirting is primarily about attitude, the decision to have a fun, light, and engaging conversation.
02:09 🔄 Flirting can be broken down into three key elements: premise, teasing, and the combination of both in flirting.
03:34 💬 Start with giving occasional compliments to add a man-to-woman aspect to your conversation.
05:11 🚀 Acting cocky can add a teasing vibe to your interactions, creating a back-and-forth dynamic.
06:21 📜 To begin, use canned teasing and flirting lines and work on the courage and timing of delivery.
08:45 🔄 Formats for flirting lines include push-pull, exaggeration, future adventure projection, mini cold reads, assigning playful nicknames, and callback humor.
12:47 🤩 Attitude and delivery are more crucial than the lines themselves when it comes to effective flirting. Start by adding a few teases or flirts to your conversations and gradually build your comfort with them.

This is what i need i have high functioning autism and flirting and recognizing social signals is hard for me

Yo this was some genuinely good advice and everything I needed to hear. Thank You

This is a great video thx! I've watched most of your videos and they help me a lot

I am trying to learn all this in my forties and it is tuff guys. If your young and get this down early in life you will be way better off. I have gotten lucky a few times in my life and picked up a girlfriend without knowing how to flirt but as you can see I am here now trying to learn it. Don't be me! Thanks Todd for your videos!

Nice to know that i was doing some of that naturally before ever watching a video and analysing it. Its sk true that when you care less and have fun, it makes it work and happen. But when you care too much or try too hard, she doesnt want you. The world is backwards

Ok finally somebody creating content on this subject matter that I'm actually picking up what hes putting down. Hes using a lot of terminology I've hearf in other videos, but I'm understanding the idea behind it. How and why not miss the what to do for these directions.

Met a stranger online, then in person. I've done push-pull, teases, forgot to do the flirt, kinda lost my cool in a moment and got a little reactive loosing my frame, but it led to me sleeping with the girl anyway. So I did more right things, I didn't always have something to say, but it worked 😂. Todd you are giving 🔥 content. I hope to see you that or next year at your program.

This video right here maybe one of the best, when it comes to the way you should be with women. Women don’t want a boring conversation.

I feel like a lot of this comes out of me naturally. I think it comes from when I was a kid, teenager, messing with friends, and watching comedy shows for years. It’s just naturally there.

Thing is though, I have the be comfortable and in the right state. A cocky or playful state, self amusing, etc…

if I’m in my head at all, not having fun, then it’s not there. It’s alot of free association and making fun of things around you.

I would say every guy with a bit confidence who fools around with his guys should know how it works.
Quick witted, no fear, use phantasy.
I've realized my power in conversation since i've watched flirt coaches. Before i always think girls are just friendly and laugh but now i get it that the first steps are already done.....
I've missed so much opportunities 😜

thanks man ur my favorite coach so far since you really explain things well and you say the whys and throw some good examples + situations, etc. Question: idk if u have a video, i wanna learn more about the relative value that you said on another video. one of my weaknesses is that i kinda know how to answer to shit tests (since i was kinda doing already and i saw your video about exaggeration and misinterpretation) but im insecure about absolute value because im pretty average in life (i have no title, kinda unstable/not balanced not very exiting life, no high discipline levels, idk common culture, im bad or below average in everything, etc) so idk much how to do playful vanter or cockyness like you said here and idk how to project relative value neither. 😅 idk if you have some content for that.