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What Makes Someone Truly "High Value"

Jillian Turecki

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What actually makes someone “high value” — and why does it have nothing to do with looks, charm, or success? In this Friday Session, Jillian breaks down the difference between chemistry and character, connection and commitment, and why so many people mistake attraction for readiness. If you’ve ever felt pulled toward someone who looked perfect on paper but couldn’t meet you emotionally, this episode will help you recalibrate what really matters when choosing a partner.

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20 Comments

@rachelsnewlife 2 months ago

Omg this is just too right on the money. 🤯🤯🤯🤯 Thank you Jillian… you continue to be my Shero every single solitary day!!

@feelthepeace 3 weeks ago

Profound intimacy ... that's a natural byproduct of emotional intelligence and secure attachment.

Deep innerwork, untold hours sitting with my shadow, communing with my Soul - yes, you've got to be ready to build a relationship - there is no way to create something where you are ill-equipped to do so.

Commitment, to yourself, firstly. Choice, yes, you got it.

Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me 🕊 🫶 💪 🪷
- Oracle to the Peace of Fringe

@khalidmusali32 4 months ago (edited)

I've had this experience once, the chemistry and connection was solid but the values and compatibility was too far apart so I had to end it, I chose heart break over life destruction.

@timelessv5z 5 months ago (edited)

They know how to feel content and they can celebrate being alive each day, even when it isn't all perfect and amazing.

@Falloutfan2776 8 months ago

Well said! I wish more people and sociality emphasized and valued this!!

@amarks4383 3 weeks ago

Great outlook, spot on

@SuperLizbug 8 months ago

Love the bangs!

@wesselvandyk4623 8 months ago

So brilliantly said Jillian, I couldn’t have said it any better 👍🙏👏🏻 it comes down again to treat the other person you want to be treated

@trish87563 8 months ago (edited)

Unfortunately, what we look like may prevent others from ever seeing our high value, ESPECIALLY in online dating where if your looks aren't what the person wants, the rest of you is never seen. People who know me tell me I'm high value, but men never take the time to get to know me because of my looks. I can't even get to choose a partner because I can't even get dates in the first place.

@Money1Films 8 months ago

Nothing but truth in this video

@CequalsRN 8 months ago

Best gym pump vid 🤙

@therealsideburnz 5 months ago

Assigning people high and low values feels so gross to me. I cringe when I hear “high value man.”

@Red-d5t1h 1 month ago

Is there anything wrong with just wanting a connection with someone, not a relationship? Provided you're upfront and honest about it from the beginning?

@outtatheashez6636 6 months ago

wow this is just beautiful 🤍

@RosieHollowayLondon 8 months ago

Powerful!!

@eengebruiker2995 8 months ago

YESS!!!❤❤❤

@laurag5648 6 months ago

Is there a video out already on how to discern this in a person
As I find sometimes it’s hard to see this in a person until a good bit in to the ‘relationship’ where they begin to stop showing up

I def am learning to go much much slower at the beginning and having open eyes, but am not sure how to vet this at the beginning / what Qs to ask without being an ‘interviewer’ etc etc

@blakeaaron5698 8 months ago

Is there a helpful way to bring these avoidant tendencies up to a partner, or ex?

@CSittig 8 months ago

I bet most of these truly high value people that you're speaking of are most likely at home on a Saturday night spoon deep in a pint of Ben & Jerry's rather than out and about with another high value partner.

@RobertGadfly 8 months ago

Being ' emotionally unavailable' is really just another term for risk aversion. After you have been burned a few times, caution is the normal reaction. And many women, when older, are in a big hurry for a commitment. I need a lot of time to even think about building trust.