They are so worried about women being gold diggers because they are the real gold diggers

This just shows that these men really only like women for what we can do for them.

But they call us gold diggers, go figure.

Ladies, stop allowing this. No man should be staying over your house unless he's married to you - meaning you both have contractual protections that matter in the court of law.

This is why a man must have the bare minimum of car and his own home. Don’t even invite him over and if you do, ENSURE that he leaves! Make him leave, don’t leave him there alone.

Why the hell will I let a stranger stay at my house all day long while I'm at work? I've got trust issues yo. I'm not gonna risk returning home to an empty home.😂

Lord! I'm 52 and overweight of course lol. I've had so many men try these things over the years. If a man doesn't have a job, car, his own house and job, he has to get away from me. You can't lay up in my house, in my heat and air if you have no place for me to do it. I'm good. My husband warned me about this type of stuff to look for before he died. Yes, he was sick at the time. He made sure to tell me what to look for and what they'll say. He protected me and his family and the money he left us. No mistakes in my grief. Watch these dudes ladies ❤

The danger that mommy's new boyfriend abuses the kids is real.
Many men are actively on the prowl for women with children.
Another reason to not let a stranger into your house.

Ladies know this, men have been doing this for years and years, we used to call it couchsurfing. Men look for stable women living alone so they can move in and take advantage of the situation. Protect yourselves and stay on the lookout for anyone wanting to take advantage of you!

This is why they also avoid marriage because they don't want to invest anything

Let me tell you when a storm was hitting and this man thought he could have a movie night with me beg me to come over my house so he can cook for me.he bought the ingredients and cooked for me  (Which he thought that could butter me). We watch one movie all of a sudden he’s tired and he wanted to  take a shower, he took a shower and he had no clothes so he beg me for my sweatpants.  I realize my dumb mistake right there and then and I told him he had to leave at 3 am. I told man to leave and take my sweatpants off. Which he did and I had no remorse and he had to go because that’s when the storm was about to hit land and your not about to shackle yourself  to me and my place.

Turns out I was right because we had a conversation months after I stopped talking to him and he said “I like how you are smart because you saw through what I was trying to do.” I saw the game and I listened to my gut because it was my gut that told me something was wrong

Yeahh you're not staying at my place while I'm not there. You're not sleeping over either if you make it to that level.

I had some guy say he could move in with me and help pay half the bills and clean because I live in a two bedroom duplex alone. I told him i don't need help and the second bedroom belonged to the cat.
He was like "The cat?!"
Yep. My 2  cats have their own room and none is moving in with me. Period! 😂

I have no problem telling a man, it's time to go home. You don't got to go home. But you ain't staying here. 🤷 🤣

The fact that they have no shame is crazy to me.

He is saying what I've always known, which is, if you simply close your mouth, they will tell you who they are!

THIS IS SO DISGUSTING...BUT WE NEED TO SEE THIS STUFF!!!

Not even gonna lie. I had male cousins who were straight up bums, deadbeats, dusties -- chronically unemployed, alcoholic, lazy, broke, chronically ill half the time, and not even handsome, etc. Even family wouldn't take them in. But those bums could ALWAYS find a woman who would take them in for a period of time, even years.  And these were "good women", not some hoochie mammas. These were hard working women who had basic assets such as a steady income, housing, transportation, some were even very educated. Make it make sense.

Makes me happy I’ve been celibate while dating because sifting through the hobos is way easier. 😅

My friend met a guy in a casino. He told her he lives in a billion dollar home and works for the city. He’s telling her to think of names for the restaurant he’s about to buy her😩 she 46 and over weight . I tried to talk some sense in her.  She said he’s so nice to her.  I told her there are no billion dollar homes in California she can google it. I dropped trying to get her to think how outrageous what he’s saying is. I just told her to be careful.