【親が決めないほど育つ】自分で決める子になる「3つの言葉」自律する子どもの育て方【工藤勇一 × HR高等学院】
HR高等学院の非常識な職員室
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About HR High School: https://hr-highschool.com/forms-detai...
Apply for an information session & trial lesson here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms
Request materials here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms/document
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Videos featuring Yuichi Kudo
Part 1: 【親が手放すほど伸びる】子どもが勝手に勉強する仕組みの正体｜宿題・定期テスト廃止で成...
Part 2: 【親が決めないほど育つ】自分で決める子になる「3つの言葉」自律する子どもの育て方【工...
Part 3: 【親の言葉で変わる】自ら決めて挑戦する子の育て方｜オンライン×対面の可能性【工藤勇一...
This is a talk show where Masahiro Yamamoto and Shuzo Narita, co-founders of HR High School, discuss the future of education, sometimes with guests.
Speakers: Masahiro Yamamoto (Co-founder/CEO, HR High School)
Yuichi Kudo (Educator)
HR High School Official Website
https://hr-highschool.com/
HR High School is a correspondence high school support school newly opened in April 2025. Its educational curriculum focuses on developing non-cognitive skills and a spirit of career exploration through problem-solving learning utilizing both online and offline methods. By incorporating subject learning to cultivate basic academic skills, it is an educational institution that aims for a wide range of careers, including obtaining a high school diploma and pursuing higher education.
#Parenting #HRHighSchool #SelfReliance
Guest Information:
Yuichi Kudo (Educator)
Born in 1960. From Yamagata Prefecture. After serving as a public junior high school teacher in Yamagata and Tokyo prefectures, and as the head of the Educational Guidance Division of the Tokyo Metropolitan Board of Education and Shinjuku Ward Board of Education, he became the principal of Chiyoda Ward Kojimachi Junior High School in 2014. He has attracted attention for advancing educational reforms that question the "norms" of school, such as abolishing homework and regular tests, and eliminating the fixed homeroom teacher system. He served as the principal of Yokohama Soei Junior and Senior High School from 2020, and since then has been giving lectures nationwide as an educational advisor. His books include "We Stopped Doing the 'Naturals' of School" (Jiji Press) and "The Power of the Principal" (Chuokoron Shinsha).
Speaker Information:
Masahiro Yamamoto (CEO of RePlayce Co., Ltd., Entrepreneurship Promotion Ambassador for the Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology)
He joined NTT East in 2010 and experienced the Great East Japan Earthquake at his initial assignment at the Ishinomaki branch in Miyagi Prefecture. In 2015, he formed "O-Den," a volunteer activity within the NTT Group to revitalize organizations. The following year, he became a co-founder of ONE JAPAN, a practical community of volunteer groups mainly composed of young and mid-career employees from large corporations. He is currently a co-representative. In 2019, ONE JAPAN received the BEYOND MILLENNIALS 2019 and the Keidanren Chairman's Award at the Cabinet Office's Open Innovation Awards. In 2020, I became independent and worked as a freelance startup accelerator.
In 2021, I joined NTT Docomo, where I became the president of the Docomo Academy (the company's in-house university) and launched the "Work Department" to promote business development. In 2023, the Docomo Academy received the Excellence Award at the Career Ownership Management AWARD 2023. In 2024, I founded RePlayce Co., Ltd.
20 Comments
最後に「じゃあどうしたらいい?」
と聞いていました。
おかげでとっても仲の良い兄妹になりました。
小学生2人の母ですが、子どもたちに「あなたはどうしたい？」と問いかけて自己決定をアシストする教育をしてみようと思いました。
そこ汚いよとか危ないよとか
今、じっと見てんだよあたしゃ
汚くてもええやん別に やりたいんだからってー そんな危なくないよー
まぁ、我が子は言っても止めない系だから害少ないけど。
朝の準備、学校始まったばかりなのに次何急げと言われたくないと言ってきたから 大人は時計みてやってるからそれやってって言った。
できた。 子供って思ったより出来るから信じてやんないとダメなんだろなって。 私の親はなんも言わない親で私はいつも好きな事してた。ご飯食べないで何か作ってても 食べろとか言わなかった 寝ろも言わなかった
自分が何してたら幸せか 自分で全部選べてた
先輩などに嫉妬される、結果、周りの目をつねに気にする20,30代でした。自分の子には先に子が決めるようにしています。自分の人生は自分で決めて生きてほしいです。
求職者が「どの会社がいいか決めてください。」と…判断を委ねてくることが多かったです。
私が「あなたの人生なのであなたが決めないといけないんですよ？」というと、凄く困った顔をされました💦
学生では先生や親の言うことを聞く子が評価されますが、社会に出て人生の選択を迫られたときに、すごく困る大人になってしまう典型例だと思います。
どんな人生を歩むか、自分で選んでる感覚が幸福に繋がると感じます。
待てる親になってもらいたいなと思います。
【親が決めないほど育つ】自分で決める子になる「3つの言葉」自律する子どもの育て方【工藤勇一 × HR高等学院】
HR高等学院の非常識な職員室
235,880 views
About HR High School: https://hr-highschool.com/forms-detai...
Apply for an information session & trial lesson here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms
Request materials here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms/document
--------------------------------
Videos featuring Yuichi Kudo
Part 1: 【親が手放すほど伸びる】子どもが勝手に勉強する仕組みの正体｜宿題・定期テスト廃止で成...
Part 2: 【親が決めないほど育つ】自分で決める子になる「3つの言葉」自律する子どもの育て方【工...
Part 3: 【親の言葉で変わる】自ら決めて挑戦する子の育て方｜オンライン×対面の可能性【工藤勇一...
This is a talk show where Masahiro Yamamoto and Shuzo Narita, co-founders of HR High School, discuss the future of education, sometimes with guests.
Speakers: Masahiro Yamamoto (Co-founder/CEO, HR High School)
Yuichi Kudo (Educator)
HR High School Official Website
https://hr-highschool.com/
HR High School is a correspondence high school support school newly opened in April 2025. Its educational curriculum focuses on developing non-cognitive skills and a spirit of career exploration through problem-solving learning utilizing both online and offline methods. By incorporating subject learning to cultivate basic academic skills, it is an educational institution that aims for a wide range of careers, including obtaining a high school diploma and pursuing higher education.
#Parenting #HRHighSchool #SelfReliance
Guest Information:
Yuichi Kudo (Educator)
Born in 1960. From Yamagata Prefecture. After serving as a public junior high school teacher in Yamagata and Tokyo prefectures, and as the head of the Educational Guidance Division of the Tokyo Metropolitan Board of Education and Shinjuku Ward Board of Education, he became the principal of Chiyoda Ward Kojimachi Junior High School in 2014. He has attracted attention for advancing educational reforms that question the "norms" of school, such as abolishing homework and regular tests, and eliminating the fixed homeroom teacher system. He served as the principal of Yokohama Soei Junior and Senior High School from 2020, and since then has been giving lectures nationwide as an educational advisor. His books include "We Stopped Doing the 'Naturals' of School" (Jiji Press) and "The Power of the Principal" (Chuokoron Shinsha).
Speaker Information:
Masahiro Yamamoto (CEO of RePlayce Co., Ltd., Entrepreneurship Promotion Ambassador for the Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology)
He joined NTT East in 2010 and experienced the Great East Japan Earthquake at his initial assignment at the Ishinomaki branch in Miyagi Prefecture. In 2015, he formed "O-Den," a volunteer activity within the NTT Group to revitalize organizations. The following year, he became a co-founder of ONE JAPAN, a practical community of volunteer groups mainly composed of young and mid-career employees from large corporations. He is currently a co-representative. In 2019, ONE JAPAN received the BEYOND MILLENNIALS 2019 and the Keidanren Chairman's Award at the Cabinet Office's Open Innovation Awards. In 2020, I became independent and worked as a freelance startup accelerator.
In 2021, I joined NTT Docomo, where I became the president of the Docomo Academy (the company's in-house university) and launched the "Work Department" to promote business development. In 2023, the Docomo Academy received the Excellence Award at the Career Ownership Management AWARD 2023. In 2024, I founded RePlayce Co., Ltd.