【ほったらかし子育て】親が口を出すのは3つだけ｜子どもの脳疲労と親のイライラを減らす方法 【成田奈緒子×HR高等学院】
HR高等学院の非常識な職員室
711,591 views
[Special Online Information Session Held!]
"What is a new learning environment where you can discover your unique charm?"
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Date: Wednesday, October 7, 2026, 8:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Method: Online (Zoom)
Participation Fee: Free
Register here:
https://hr-highschool.com/seminars/01...
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This event is not just a school information session.
・You're still undecided about your future and feeling anxious.
・You're not attending school, or you feel your current school isn't a good fit.
Professionals will provide easy-to-understand information to help with these kinds of concerns.
Please feel free to participate!
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[HR High School Information Sessions & Trial Sessions are currently being held! Seminars are being held regularly!] 】
What is HR High School?: https://hr-highschool.com/forms-detai...
Apply for an information session & trial lesson here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms
Request materials here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms/document
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Past appearances of Naoko Narita
Past video #1: 【親はもっと楽をして】頑張りすぎは逆効果「子どもの脳の育て方」親が幸せなら子も幸せに...
Past video #2: 【親は口出ししない】親子が楽になる関わり方「過干渉・溺愛はNG」【成田奈緒子×HR高...
Latest video #1: 【ほったらかし子育て】親が口を出すのは3つだけ｜子どもの脳疲労と親のイライラを減らす...
Latest video #2: 【自ら学ぶ子になる】学力を伸ばす脳の育て方｜親は宿題や成績に口を出さなくていい【成田...
Latest video #3: 【急がない子育て】早期教育も中学受験も焦らなくていい｜子どもが伸びる脳の土台と親の関...
Latest video #4 【何度言ってもできない】発達特性のある子への親の関わり方｜かんしゃく・忘れ物には理由...
This is a talk show where the two co-founders of HR High School, sometimes joined by guests, discuss the future of education.
Cast: Masahiro Yamamoto (Co-founder/CEO, HR High School)
Naoko Narita (Pediatric Neuroscientist)
HR High School Official Website
https://hr-highschool.com/
HR High School is a correspondence high school support school that opened in April 2025. It is an educational institution that aims for a wide range of careers, including obtaining a high school diploma and university entrance, by incorporating subject learning that develops basic academic skills, while also focusing on problem-solving learning that utilizes both online and offline methods to cultivate non-cognitive abilities and a spirit of career exploration.
#parenting #hrhighschool #brainfatigue
Guest Information:
Naoko Narita (Pediatric Neuroscientist)
Professor, Special Needs Education Department, Faculty of Education, Bunkyo University. Japanese Pediatric Society / Japan Board of Medical Specialists. Certified Pediatrician, Certified Clinical Psychologist. Developmental Neuroscientist, Representative of Child-Rearing Science Axis. Born in Sendai, raised in Kobe. After graduating from Kobe University, he conducted research in molecular biology, embryology, anatomy, and neuroscience at the University of Washington School of Medicine and the University of Tsukuba's Department of Basic Medical Sciences. While continuing his activities as a clinician and researcher, he is developing a new child-rearing theory that integrates medicine, psychology, education, and welfare. He has authored numerous books, including "Children's Brain Fatigue" (Nihon Bungeisha).
Speaker Information:
Masahiro Yamamoto (CEO, RePlayce Co., Ltd., Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology Entrepreneurship Promotion Ambassador)
He joined NTT East in 2010 and experienced the Great East Japan Earthquake at his initial assignment at the Ishinomaki branch in Miyagi Prefecture. In 2015, he formed "O-Den," a volunteer activity within the NTT Group to revitalize organizations. The following year, he became a co-founder of ONE JAPAN, a practical community of volunteer groups within companies, mainly composed of young and mid-career employees of large corporations. He is currently a co-representative. In 2019, ONE JAPAN received the BEYOND MILLENNIALS 2019 and the Keidanren Chairman's Award at the Cabinet Office's Open Innovation Awards. In 2020, I became independent and worked as a freelance startup accelerator. In 2021, I joined NTT Docomo, where I became the president of the Docomo Academy, the company's in-house university, and launched the Work Department to promote business development. In 2023, the Docomo Academy received the Excellence Award at the Career Ownership Management AWARD 2023. In 2024, I founded RePlayce Co., Ltd.
20 Comments
３人の我が子、みんな同じには出来ないなという感想です。
でも、感情を乗せずに正しいことを淡々と伝えるということはとても共感します。
怒ることが1番疲れます。
我が子がほったらかし育児に向いてるのか、適切なほったらかしになってるか親が見極められるのか、そこが本当に大事だと思う。
家庭では最低限、あとは皆さま、よろしくね…って、モンペだよ。先生、大変。そりゃ、辞めるわ。
もう少し、周りのことを考えるように、親も考えるし、子供にも伝えるほうが、子供にとっても社会全体にとっても幸福度が上がると思うけどねー。
今思えば心理的虐待だったな…
大人になった今ではかなり情緒不安定な性格で心療内科にお世話になる羽目になっています。
夫婦喧嘩は絶対子どもに見せてはいけない。
産院の助産師さんから「子育ては安心・安全、栄養、清潔、これだけやっておけば、子供は育つから」と言われ、それを実践してきました。先生の仰るように、遊んで食べて寝る子供時代。
監視ではなく、一緒にやることでお手本を見せるようにしてきました。一緒にやると何より私が楽しい！
中学受験をして本当に楽しい6年間だったそうです。今、浪人生。小学生の時に3年間同じノートを使い続けた（ノートを書かなかった）子供が毎日勉強しています。
きちんと学習学校生活に向き合ってる子の人権が守られてたらなぁ。
なので、子供たちに持ち物の準備や宿題を持っていく責任はやはり親がしっかり見なければいけない時代ではと思います。今の時代では昔と違いSNSなどの問題は1つ間違えるといじめになったり、すぐ記録に残ります。親からもしっかり伝えないと取り返しのつかない問題にもなりかねません。
今の時代はほったらかし子育ては未就学児までなのかなと思っています。
ちなみに主人は今も箸の持ち方が違います。義母にはほったらかして育てられたそうです。いつか出来たらいいねでどこかで直ればいいですが、自分の子供たちだったらと思うと最低限決め事や食事マナーは小学生のうちにやらないとなと思います。
ほったらかし子育てというタイトルから見てみました
私は家庭が子供の頃安心安定の場ではなかったです
私は海外在住で、言葉や文化の面でも適応に苦労し
一人っ子の為まさに、失敗してはいけないという思いが😂強いです
最低限しか言われなくて、
困って自分で変えていった経験しかない
今となっては何も困ってないけど
でも1度も先回りして何かしてもらえなかったから寂しかった記憶がある
確かに命に関わるような大事なことじゃないことに怒ってたなぁと反省したが、やはり忘れ物や宿題をやらないことに対してはきちんと叱らないとほったらかし過ぎだと個人的には思う。命には関わらないが社会生活を勉強するのも子供の仕事だと思うので。
すべての子供に同じ教育方針を当てはめられる訳ではないと思う。成田先生はまさに、子供が東大行きましたという親が子供に一度も勉強しなさいと言ったことがないというのと一緒だと思うが、そういう子は脳の出来が違うのでどう育てても東大に行くと思う。こういう親の意見を鵜呑みにすると危険だと思う。
【ほったらかし子育て】親が口を出すのは3つだけ｜子どもの脳疲労と親のイライラを減らす方法 【成田奈緒子×HR高等学院】
HR高等学院の非常識な職員室
711,591 views
[Special Online Information Session Held!]
"What is a new learning environment where you can discover your unique charm?"
--------------------------------
Date: Wednesday, October 7, 2026, 8:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Method: Online (Zoom)
Participation Fee: Free
Register here:
https://hr-highschool.com/seminars/01...
--------------------------------
This event is not just a school information session.
・You're still undecided about your future and feeling anxious.
・You're not attending school, or you feel your current school isn't a good fit.
Professionals will provide easy-to-understand information to help with these kinds of concerns.
Please feel free to participate!
--------------------------------
[HR High School Information Sessions & Trial Sessions are currently being held! Seminars are being held regularly!] 】
What is HR High School?: https://hr-highschool.com/forms-detai...
Apply for an information session & trial lesson here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms
Request materials here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms/document
--------------------------------
Past appearances of Naoko Narita
Past video #1: 【親はもっと楽をして】頑張りすぎは逆効果「子どもの脳の育て方」親が幸せなら子も幸せに...
Past video #2: 【親は口出ししない】親子が楽になる関わり方「過干渉・溺愛はNG」【成田奈緒子×HR高...
Latest video #1: 【ほったらかし子育て】親が口を出すのは3つだけ｜子どもの脳疲労と親のイライラを減らす...
Latest video #2: 【自ら学ぶ子になる】学力を伸ばす脳の育て方｜親は宿題や成績に口を出さなくていい【成田...
Latest video #3: 【急がない子育て】早期教育も中学受験も焦らなくていい｜子どもが伸びる脳の土台と親の関...
Latest video #4 【何度言ってもできない】発達特性のある子への親の関わり方｜かんしゃく・忘れ物には理由...
This is a talk show where the two co-founders of HR High School, sometimes joined by guests, discuss the future of education.
Cast: Masahiro Yamamoto (Co-founder/CEO, HR High School)
Naoko Narita (Pediatric Neuroscientist)
HR High School Official Website
https://hr-highschool.com/
HR High School is a correspondence high school support school that opened in April 2025. It is an educational institution that aims for a wide range of careers, including obtaining a high school diploma and university entrance, by incorporating subject learning that develops basic academic skills, while also focusing on problem-solving learning that utilizes both online and offline methods to cultivate non-cognitive abilities and a spirit of career exploration.
#parenting #hrhighschool #brainfatigue
Guest Information:
Naoko Narita (Pediatric Neuroscientist)
Professor, Special Needs Education Department, Faculty of Education, Bunkyo University. Japanese Pediatric Society / Japan Board of Medical Specialists. Certified Pediatrician, Certified Clinical Psychologist. Developmental Neuroscientist, Representative of Child-Rearing Science Axis. Born in Sendai, raised in Kobe. After graduating from Kobe University, he conducted research in molecular biology, embryology, anatomy, and neuroscience at the University of Washington School of Medicine and the University of Tsukuba's Department of Basic Medical Sciences. While continuing his activities as a clinician and researcher, he is developing a new child-rearing theory that integrates medicine, psychology, education, and welfare. He has authored numerous books, including "Children's Brain Fatigue" (Nihon Bungeisha).
Speaker Information:
Masahiro Yamamoto (CEO, RePlayce Co., Ltd., Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology Entrepreneurship Promotion Ambassador)
He joined NTT East in 2010 and experienced the Great East Japan Earthquake at his initial assignment at the Ishinomaki branch in Miyagi Prefecture. In 2015, he formed "O-Den," a volunteer activity within the NTT Group to revitalize organizations. The following year, he became a co-founder of ONE JAPAN, a practical community of volunteer groups within companies, mainly composed of young and mid-career employees of large corporations. He is currently a co-representative. In 2019, ONE JAPAN received the BEYOND MILLENNIALS 2019 and the Keidanren Chairman's Award at the Cabinet Office's Open Innovation Awards. In 2020, I became independent and worked as a freelance startup accelerator. In 2021, I joined NTT Docomo, where I became the president of the Docomo Academy, the company's in-house university, and launched the Work Department to promote business development. In 2023, the Docomo Academy received the Excellence Award at the Career Ownership Management AWARD 2023. In 2024, I founded RePlayce Co., Ltd.