【思春期から変わる】親は手を離していい｜子どもを伸ばす“外の師匠”の見つけ方【高濱正伸×HR高等学院】
HR高等学院の非常識な職員室
103,484 views
[Special Online Information Session Held!]
"What is a new learning environment where you can discover your unique charm?"
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Date: Wednesday, October 7, 2026, 8:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Method: Online (Zoom)
Participation Fee: Free
Register here:
https://hr-highschool.com/seminars/01...
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This event is not just a school information session.
・You're still undecided about your future and feeling anxious.
・You're not attending school, or you feel your current school isn't a good fit.
Professionals will provide easy-to-understand information to help with these kinds of concerns.
Please feel free to participate!
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[HR High School Information Sessions & Trial Sessions are currently being held! Seminars are being held regularly!] 】
What is HR High School?: https://hr-highschool.com/forms-detai...
Apply for an information session & trial lesson here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms
Request materials here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms/document
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Videos featuring Masanobu Takahama
Past appearance #1: 【有料級】発達段階別『正しい子どもの叱り方・接し方・支え方』【高濱正伸xHR高等学院】
Past appearance #2: 【保護者必見】今最大の教育課題の解決方法はこれだ！
Latest appearance #1: 【思春期から変わる】親は手を離していい｜子どもを伸ばす“外の師匠”の見つけ方【高濱正...
Latest appearance #2: To be updated later
Latest appearance #3: To be updated later
This is a talk show where the two co-founders of HR High School, sometimes joined by guests, discuss the future of education.
Speakers: Masahiro Yamamoto (Co-founder/CEO, HR High School)
Masahiro Takahama (Representative, Hanamaru Learning Center)
HR High School Official Website
https://hr-highschool.com/
HR High School is a correspondence high school support school newly opened in April 2025. It is an educational institution that aims for a wide range of careers, including obtaining a high school diploma and entering university, by incorporating subject learning to cultivate basic academic skills, while also focusing on problem-solving learning that utilizes both online and offline methods to foster non-cognitive abilities and a spirit of career exploration.
#parenting #hrhighschool #HanamaruLearningCenter
Guest Speaker Information:
Masahiro Takahama (Representative, Hanamaru Learning Center)
Born in Hitoyoshi City, Kumamoto Prefecture in 1959. After graduating from Kumamoto Prefectural High School, he entered the University of Tokyo. He graduated from the Faculty of Agriculture, University of Tokyo, and completed his master's degree at the Graduate School of Agricultural Sciences, University of Tokyo. In 1993, driven by the concern that "this country is mass-producing adults who cannot be independent," the Hanamaru Learning Association was established with the philosophy of "raising adults who can earn a living," focusing on "composition," "reading," "critical thinking," and "outdoor experiences." In 1995, School FC, a preparatory school for elementary school fourth graders to junior high school third graders, was established. Without flyers, and relying solely on word-of-mouth, the association grew through word-of-mouth, with mothers handling everything from finding locations to recruiting members. The membership, initially 20, has grown to over 20,000 in 23 years. Furthermore, the association's outdoor experience programs, such as the Summer School and Snow Country School, are extremely popular, attracting approximately 10,000 participants annually. In the summer of 2020, the Hanamaru Deserted Island Project was launched.
For the past 10 years, she has provided various forms of support to public schools, and since April 2015, she has been involved in the operation of "Takeo Hanamaru Gakuen," a public-private partnership school in Takeo City, Saga Prefecture, which has been expanded to all 11 public elementary schools in the city. She has consistently provided learning support for children with disabilities and counseling for adolescents who are socially withdrawn, and currently operates as an independent, specialized NPO called "Child-Rearing Support Team Mugigumi." The number of participants in her lectures for parents and others, which she energetically conducts in various locations, exceeded 30,000 annually for in-person lectures, but has surpassed 100,000 since moving online. She is so popular that she even has "follow-me moms." She has authored numerous books, including the long-selling "Habits of Mothers Who Raise Children Who Continue to Grow," as well as "Math Brain Development to Cultivate by the Third Grade," "Raising Your Child to Become an Adult Who Can Earn a Living," the "Math Brain Puzzle Nazope" series, and "Becoming an Adult Who Can Earn a Living! The Rules of the World." There are 200 related books, with a total circulation of over 3 million copies.
Speaker Information:
Masahiro Yamamoto (CEO, RePlayce Co., Ltd., and Entrepreneurship Promotion Ambassador for the Ministr...
16 Comments
熱量のある大人は、価値観や在り方に一貫性があるし、シンプルに没頭している姿は子どもに伝わりますね。
親は子に良かれと思って色々やらせようとしがちだけど、たったひとつ何かに没頭できて思考の邪魔をしなければ、後は自走していく力が育つんだなぁと痛感してます。
「宿題は？」と言わなくなったら、本当に課題を出さなくなり、成績表は未提出＆遅刻欠席が増加中‥
中学は卓球部のメガネ男子だったのに、高校で全国レベルのダンス部に入りコンタクトにし、完全にルッキズム。好きな子の影もチラホラ…。本人曰く「今、モテ期」らしく、青春真っ盛りです。
22時のスマホ制限も「外してほしい」と解除。夜中のやり取りも「青春やな」と見守っていますが、学校に行く理由がほぼ「ダンスが楽しい」状態。
文化祭ではっちゃけ、朝は洗面所で髪のセットに時間をかけすぎて遅刻。
中学時代は「もっと上の大学へ」と言っていたのに、最近は「受験やる気ない」と…。
本人の人生なので、あまり口うるさく言わず見守りたい気持ちと、このままだと附属大学の推薦すら危うくなってきている現実との間で、親の方が焦っています。
父親には交渉しづらいらしく、お小遣いなどは全部母に言ってくる一方、先輩や顧問の先生の言うことは素直に聞くので、やっぱり「外の師匠」って大事なのかなと。
担任との面談では「授業中は寝ていることもありますが、掃除の時間はとても真面目です」と……。
そこ褒めるところ！？
こういう時期、親はどこまで口を出して、どこから見守ればいいのでしょうか？
どうしたらいいですかね‥
ほんと、泣いたり笑ったり・・・色々なドラマがありました。
コンクールで銅賞だったとき、何年ぶりかの入賞だったので、チームメイトと抱き合って泣いていたら、
先生が「お前ら、どうして泣いてるんだ？銅賞で悔しいのか？」と。あのひと言は忘れられない。
今はやりたくなければやらなくていい、行きたくなければ行かなくていい、とか教育に無責任な優しさがあり、確実に学力や人間力が落ちていると思います。
暇でぶらぶらしてる中学生がモールにたむろしてます😢
先生のおっしゃる通り国は日本の未来を担う子ども達を弱体化したいに私も同意です。ホント学校の意味がわからない
神戸商業学校出身だけど、刑務所あがりの精神不安定元ヤクザの先生、顧問がいて学校を掻き回して、本当に最悪だった。
子供達には本物の先生を知って欲しいので幼児期から体操教室に通わせているけど、長年子供達を指導しているプロは親からみても全然違う。
中学のゴミみたいな部活には入れないように子供には頑張ってほしい。
【思春期から変わる】親は手を離していい｜子どもを伸ばす“外の師匠”の見つけ方【高濱正伸×HR高等学院】
HR高等学院の非常識な職員室
103,484 views
[Special Online Information Session Held!]
"What is a new learning environment where you can discover your unique charm?"
--------------------------------
Date: Wednesday, October 7, 2026, 8:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Method: Online (Zoom)
Participation Fee: Free
Register here:
https://hr-highschool.com/seminars/01...
--------------------------------
This event is not just a school information session.
・You're still undecided about your future and feeling anxious.
・You're not attending school, or you feel your current school isn't a good fit.
Professionals will provide easy-to-understand information to help with these kinds of concerns.
Please feel free to participate!
--------------------------------
[HR High School Information Sessions & Trial Sessions are currently being held! Seminars are being held regularly!] 】
What is HR High School?: https://hr-highschool.com/forms-detai...
Apply for an information session & trial lesson here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms
Request materials here: https://hr-highschool.com/forms/document
--------------------------------
Videos featuring Masanobu Takahama
Past appearance #1: 【有料級】発達段階別『正しい子どもの叱り方・接し方・支え方』【高濱正伸xHR高等学院】
Past appearance #2: 【保護者必見】今最大の教育課題の解決方法はこれだ！
Latest appearance #1: 【思春期から変わる】親は手を離していい｜子どもを伸ばす“外の師匠”の見つけ方【高濱正...
Latest appearance #2: To be updated later
Latest appearance #3: To be updated later
This is a talk show where the two co-founders of HR High School, sometimes joined by guests, discuss the future of education.
Speakers: Masahiro Yamamoto (Co-founder/CEO, HR High School)
Masahiro Takahama (Representative, Hanamaru Learning Center)
HR High School Official Website
https://hr-highschool.com/
HR High School is a correspondence high school support school newly opened in April 2025. It is an educational institution that aims for a wide range of careers, including obtaining a high school diploma and entering university, by incorporating subject learning to cultivate basic academic skills, while also focusing on problem-solving learning that utilizes both online and offline methods to foster non-cognitive abilities and a spirit of career exploration.
#parenting #hrhighschool #HanamaruLearningCenter
Guest Speaker Information:
Masahiro Takahama (Representative, Hanamaru Learning Center)
Born in Hitoyoshi City, Kumamoto Prefecture in 1959. After graduating from Kumamoto Prefectural High School, he entered the University of Tokyo. He graduated from the Faculty of Agriculture, University of Tokyo, and completed his master's degree at the Graduate School of Agricultural Sciences, University of Tokyo. In 1993, driven by the concern that "this country is mass-producing adults who cannot be independent," the Hanamaru Learning Association was established with the philosophy of "raising adults who can earn a living," focusing on "composition," "reading," "critical thinking," and "outdoor experiences." In 1995, School FC, a preparatory school for elementary school fourth graders to junior high school third graders, was established. Without flyers, and relying solely on word-of-mouth, the association grew through word-of-mouth, with mothers handling everything from finding locations to recruiting members. The membership, initially 20, has grown to over 20,000 in 23 years. Furthermore, the association's outdoor experience programs, such as the Summer School and Snow Country School, are extremely popular, attracting approximately 10,000 participants annually. In the summer of 2020, the Hanamaru Deserted Island Project was launched.
For the past 10 years, she has provided various forms of support to public schools, and since April 2015, she has been involved in the operation of "Takeo Hanamaru Gakuen," a public-private partnership school in Takeo City, Saga Prefecture, which has been expanded to all 11 public elementary schools in the city. She has consistently provided learning support for children with disabilities and counseling for adolescents who are socially withdrawn, and currently operates as an independent, specialized NPO called "Child-Rearing Support Team Mugigumi." The number of participants in her lectures for parents and others, which she energetically conducts in various locations, exceeded 30,000 annually for in-person lectures, but has surpassed 100,000 since moving online. She is so popular that she even has "follow-me moms." She has authored numerous books, including the long-selling "Habits of Mothers Who Raise Children Who Continue to Grow," as well as "Math Brain Development to Cultivate by the Third Grade," "Raising Your Child to Become an Adult Who Can Earn a Living," the "Math Brain Puzzle Nazope" series, and "Becoming an Adult Who Can Earn a Living! The Rules of the World." There are 200 related books, with a total circulation of over 3 million copies.
Speaker Information:
Masahiro Yamamoto (CEO, RePlayce Co., Ltd., and Entrepreneurship Promotion Ambassador for the Ministr...