Por qué te inventas películas de amor con gente que no te da ni la hora.
Programa MIA
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There is something even more painful than the ebb and flow of someone who is and isn't: nothingness.
The preoccupied style prefers pain to emptiness.
I know it's hard to believe and that nobody wants to suffer. But the reality is that fantasy, demands, expectations, intense conversations, and pursuit are "emotional painkillers."
Because drama is noise. And noise, even though it hurts, makes us feel that we are still connected to something.
In today's episode, I analyze why we fantasize about almost impossible relationships and how we use intensity as anesthesia to avoid feeling helpless.
Access MIA Monograph 05 | Relational Defenses: Keys to navigating when a relationship triggers your attachment wounds.
https://programamia.com/registro-defe...
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El comenzar una nueva relación nos pone en modo alerta. Es como si pusiéramos una armadura emocional.
Excelente canal. Saludos desde Uruguay 🇺🇾
Por qué te inventas películas de amor con gente que no te da ni la hora.
Programa MIA
14,228 views
There is something even more painful than the ebb and flow of someone who is and isn't: nothingness.
The preoccupied style prefers pain to emptiness.
I know it's hard to believe and that nobody wants to suffer. But the reality is that fantasy, demands, expectations, intense conversations, and pursuit are "emotional painkillers."
Because drama is noise. And noise, even though it hurts, makes us feel that we are still connected to something.
In today's episode, I analyze why we fantasize about almost impossible relationships and how we use intensity as anesthesia to avoid feeling helpless.
Access MIA Monograph 05 | Relational Defenses: Keys to navigating when a relationship triggers your attachment wounds.
https://programamia.com/registro-defe...
MIA