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9 Reasons to NOT Date or Marry a German | Adventures of La Mari | American in Germany

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On today’s episode we are going to talk about what do you need to know about dating or even being married to Germans….the good…..the bad…..and the ugly….!

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20 Comments

@PeterNGloor 1 year ago

If you cannot cope with cultural differences and adapt, you live in the wrong country and culture.

@HildeGolden 1 year ago

german/canadian here you actually made a good point to marry a german not so superficial as americans...

@hymnodyhands 1 year ago

A German man seems like the type of man one can live a quiet and peaceful life in the world with, and at the same time enjoy a rich intellectual life together because one has to be ready to discuss and debate firmly in that culture that has produced so much great invention and art, and grappled with the meaning of human life with both great successes and great failures. Those nine things sound like PLUSES to me!

@Detlef61 1 year ago

I was born & raised in Dinkelsbuehl (Bavaria), came to the US at the age of 15 ... graduated from HS in the US .. met my Wife (she's American) in 81, got married in 84 ... still together

@rforbus01 5 months ago

I am German expat married to woman born in the USA. The wife had a female boss (who was also German expat but married to American guy) and she once needed my help. She of course told my wife "you have PERFECT husband - German man". 🙂

@marblox9300 1 year ago

As a German American - as I get older I find I am less willing to take risks. And I walk around my condo complex picking up and sorting recycleable bottles and putting trash in the dumpsters. Yes, crazy about being tidy. And I help animals whenever the need is there - I take care of 11 homeless cats I took in. Always busy.:)

@pzgreni282 8 months ago

We are known to be quite rigid on punctuality. Being late without a valid explanation is almost considered a personal insult. On the other hand, many Germans love irony and sarcasm, which often confuses or even insults non-Germans, especially Americans.

@Jay-in-the-USA 4 years ago

Haha in Germany "Datenschutz" is spelled in capital letters. 😁Therefore many Germans don't like to be so open on Facebook, Instagram, Videos etc.

@minamahal17 1 year ago

It's a great satire! In fact, all of the points on the list demonstrate the positive qualities and maturity of a German husband.

@314jrock 1 year ago

Numbers 2, 3, 4, 7, and 9 are great reasons to date or marry a German. #2 Germans not using social media is a good time to me because I don't use social media very much. I don't see how not using social media is weird. #3 If I were to date or marry a German Woman, I would want to learn the German language. #4 As a man, Germans preferring experiences over gifts is a great thing. This is how relationships should be anyway. #7 I love the fact that German romance is subtle, especially in public. #9 Germans being humble is a great thing.

@smokeygrant 5 months ago

Thrifty - sometimes rude - cold - lack of feeling

@wora1111 4 years ago

I usually consider myself very "americanized" as a German male because of the time I spent there. But I definitely am not able to handle compliments. They always irritate me. A simple "Thank you" is acceptable but somebody mentioning that I did good feels "over the top". That may be, because we expect doing good ist the lowest acceptable level. Usually we mention what went wrong rather then complimenting on things going well.

@klaaspekala6804 1 year ago

German man here and i have to say you´re quite spot on! I´d Ger-man-splain to you why, but...

@Schuetze51 6 months ago

Please tell me which of your 9 points are so bad that you can not date or marry a German? Because all the points seem really smart on the guy's side! Plus it seems you are not really unhappy to live and be married to a German!
It is also annoying that you feel you can criticize German, because there is a reason you decided to live in Germany not not in the country you came from!

@davebelferman915 6 months ago

The good the bad and the ugly is in every country!!!!

@xuv224 1 year ago

Here I am almost 51 years old and all that time I thought personality traits of being honest and humble were something to appreciate in people. But after watching this video I am enlightened to now know it is best to stay away from people with these traits.

@Otonosekai 1 year ago

If you don't want quality...I should make a video called "20 reasons to avoid marrying an American woman..."😀😀😀😀

@Neptuneman07 10 months ago

The irony is that all 9 are also in my German American culture as well.

@teotik8071 4 years ago

Americans talk because they love to talk but it means nothing to them. It is quite the opposite here, when we talk we want to share something (most times).
For me as a german it is often frustrating to talk to americans. They is no seriousness, one second they are interested moments later they are not. They interact with people like if they are items they may purchase.