Why do survivors freeze? Why can speaking up take years? And why does society keep asking victims to explain themselves?

Dr. Leslie Dobson joins Christina and V for an honest, unfiltered conversation about rape culture, victim blaming, trauma, and accountability. Drawing on her work as a forensic psychologist and her own experience as a survivor, Leslie discusses the behavior of sexual predators, the institutions that protect powerful people, and what it means to stand up for survivors.

We also discuss trusting your instincts, recognizing coercive control, teaching children about consent, and the story behind her book, Leave the Cart.

This conversation is personal, emotional, and worth hearing.

Content note: This episode includes explicit discussion of sexual assault, child sexual abuse, suicide, and survivor experiences, along with strong language. Please take care of yourself while watching.

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