Being neurodivergent doesnt mean you are a preditor, but being neurodivergent doesnt exclude you from being one either, nor does being a preditor mean you arnt neurodivergent.

The only correlative aspect between those two is the accidental creep thing, but even than he is old enough to have learnt atleast a little.

Rachel OP: "My wife let out a massive laugh and said did you mean to say Whoopi Goldberg." That is pretty disgusting blatant racism. Whoopi has more conventionally black features, such as her nose and hair, on top of being darker than Zendaya, which is why OP's wife would consider her "ugly". That is pretty vile behavior.

The fact he badmouths his own family and her sister to her is the most concerning part. Like the talking about collection part could have been innocent but that just showed it wasn't

Heh, looks like 21 Pilots made two new singles.

Story 1: The dad is a predator. He’s targeting OP’s younger sister due to her lack in social skills/awareness of his obvious advances in trying to take advantage of her. OP and her boyfriend needs to step in and put an end to this before it’s too late.

Edit: Oh thank god her sister blocked him. Also, thank GOODNESS the boyfriend told his mom about his dad’s behavior. Reddit can go fuck itself.

Naw, call out your partner publicly if they're being stupid, and calling them out privately hasn't worked.

As a black woman, I immediately clocked the Whoopi Goldberg  comment as racially motivated. Whoopi was known for her humor, not her looks. IDK if it's changed at all, but there was also this narrative that women couldn't be attractive AND funny.  So, if you were a famous comedienne, you basically were not hot. Whoopi is also a dark skinned woman, which is not deemed attractive by wider society. And,  bigger, which is also not deemed attractive by wider society. Whoopi is also significantly older than Zendaya, so the comparison is even weirder.  I'm not saying I hold any of these views,  I'm just explaining for anyone who may not know.  

Zendaya on the other hand is lightskinned and biracial.  A little wisp of anything. Known for her beauty and a fashion icon.  Definitely a completely different societal view.


The wife is completely disgusting and nasty! I don't understand these weird women that already have a man who loves and hypes them,  but are pressed over random male attention.  Ewww!

Remember, abusers will often fly off the handle for little to no reason because their goal is to put their partners in a constant state of anxiety about setting them off so they will prioritize the abuser's feelings over their own.

Plot twist: the band is The Wiggles

For the last story, I can safely say as an African American, my ears perked up at the  zendaya and Whoopi Goldberg comment. It was in fact, racially motivated

Story 3- the boyfriend sounds ablest as all heck. That wasn't just the boyfriend being crazy about her weight, he was angry she used mobility assistance while... needing assistance with her mobility.

Okay, guy from the first story is creepy as hell. Also, neurodivergence isn't an excuse. He's a predator and trying to cheat on his wife.

Mobility scooter story: fun fact the employee was trying to lower the stores liability if you fall. The employee could see the danger of you falling and he couldn’t

“Tchotchke” is pronounced “chatch-kee”, it’s a term approximate to “doo-dad” or “knick-knack”, from what i remember.

What a misleading band name, not only is there not 21 members but also none of them are pilots.

4:24 "If the sister was creeped out, she wouldn't be responding him and would reject his invites to dinner" This commenter has apparently never met a people pleaser in their entire life.

Strong disagree about never calling out your partner in public. Nagging and not coddling are different things

The guy who pitched a fit about his girlfriend using the scooter is exactly the same guy who would have left her if she ever had a serious injury or illness. Clearly he didn’t care at all for her wellbeing and happiness. Glad she dropped him!

That last one, OP just goes back and forth with attractive not attractive conventially not conventially. I think the issue hes skipping over is their friend suggested wife's anger towards fiancé was racially motivated. pretty or not pretty that is an issue that needs to be addressed.

S1: No! No nononono NO!! I'm a big sister, and if I find that my boyfriend's dad was making advances like this towards my youngest sister, I'd be opening up the gates of Hell