As someone who is AuDHD and has struggled, I am sick and tired of people using their mental issues as an excuse for bad behavior. A diagnosis is meant to help you better understand yourself and how to navigate in a neurotypical world, not a get-out-of-jail free card for being a jerk.

Wtf is wrong with this first guy!?!
I'm in my 30s.
I literally wear tulle skirts, mostly black, layers and flowers all of the time.
My apartment is covered in mirrors, mini chandeliers, curtains, drapes and art that I've collected for decades.
I have an amazing partner who appreciates me, and supports the way that I am.
Girl, run.

Proud to be a witchy woman and the people who care about me love my style.

For the trans story, what op meant was that She makes her kids call their other parent "dad" (despite her being a trans woman) and the kids were confused about why because all of their friends dad's are boys and their "dad" is a girl

i'm in my 40s, i wear everything from princess dresses with lots of bows and hair accessories to goth makeup with long black "witchy" dresses.
my husband many not always like my outfits, but he also doesn't tell me what i can or can't wear.
that guy is way to controlling i hope she leaves him

About the trans situation, what a horrible mother, she is actually keeping the other parent out of the children's life. That should be illegal.

"The only thing she needs to understand is no." He's treating her like a dog 🐕

"I don't know if you know what your talking about, because I only spend time around ONE type of person, so no one else exists, despite what you say" 😭

OP is making her kids call the ex Dad because she's Mom.

1:06 Goth Baddies keep away the saddies ❤

I think OP makes the kids call her ex “dad” because she (OP) is “mom”. And the kid was asking why his friends’ dads were all boys. I don’t think the friends’ dads said anything.

Edit:  you got there.

Hey sometimes my partner wears stuff I absolutely am not a fan of. He has a style that I'm not completely on board with every part of. I would never make this much of a big ass deal about it

I'm 21 and I've dressed the same way since I was 15 and transitioned from emo to goth and masculine to androgynous. If any guy can't hang with that, there's the crypt door, he can leave

I got with my boyfriend when he was 18 and i was 22. He has changed so so much in the 4 years we have spent together. His style is so personal to him, his tastes in decor and art has gotten much more refined with time too. Im very proud of the man he has become and ive loved every version of my boyfriend. I love him for much more than his tastes and appearance, i love to see him grow and change into a better more defined adult.

Unless youre wearing a three piece suit for me, you have no say in what I wear.

Another good saying is "it's an explanation, not an excuse."

"Is this worth fixing? " Nah dude if that is the question you're asking,  you clearly don't love her that much.

“I dress nice. I wear khakis and polo shirts🤓”.

You mean you dressing the most boring style clothing that’s so plain it’s used as uniforms in both school and work.

It just shows that he is the most boring guy to deal with

i feel like he should just say “i’m glad youre finding your style. personally, i don’t want our living rooms decorated this way”

like why can’t he just SAY THE THING. it’s so simple

S1: compatibility diminished to the point they should break up.  Seems simple but op doesnt want to let her go.

1:50 😳 teacher?... ok...

5:03: oof. Totally controlling behavior