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10 Things No One Tells You About Childfree Life

Wife Without Kids

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No one talked about childfree life when I was growing up. This made things confusing and sometimes I felt a little bit crazy for choosing this lifestyle. Today I'm telling you all the things I wish people had told me when it comes to making the choice to live without kids.
00:00 intro
00:17 eye roll when ppl say this isn't true
00:52 not everyone gets it
01:44 what's the point of life anyway
02:18 please stop
02:58 the pressure is on
04:13 therapy anyone?
04:30 this is a struggle for me
05:58 let's use the correct words
06:17 we have options
06:57 drum roll please
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20 Comments

@WifeWithoutKids Creator 3 years ago (edited) Pinned

⭐ Don’t get caught off guard by childfree questions and comments—find ready-to-use scripts for “When are you having kids?” and “You’ll change your mind” in my Etsy shop. ⭐
https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/WhatToSayScripts

00:00 intro
00:17 eye roll when ppl say this isn't true
00:52 not everyone gets it
01:44 what's the point of life anyway
02:18 please stop
02:58 the pressure is on
04:13 therapy anyone?
04:30 this is a struggle for me
05:58 let's use the correct words
06:17 we have options
06:57 drum roll please

@amberglow7612 3 years ago

"You don't have to make up for the fact that you don't have kids"
Really needed to hear this! Thank you

@BlueDingo99 3 years ago

I think we don't appreciate the simple things in life, so people almost think if you aren't overstimulated you're life is dull. I enjoy reading and listening to the rain, like it is something I look forward to. You don't need to be overwhelmed and busy to feel like life is fulfilled, you just need to learn what little things you enjoy and thoroughly appreciate them.

@lanachild7731 3 years ago

The older I get, the more I realize, children are not cute toys to play with. They are completely autonomous individuals who have their own lives, wants, interests, needs and desires.

@ss-fs3fm 3 years ago

Every time I tell people with children that I did nothing but sleep on the weekend, I see the envy in their eyes. Those looks solidify why I do not have children.

@martuskarogowska 3 years ago

"Life is only boring if you're a boring person". Hahaha, yes!

@claud1834 1 year ago

65 married woman. Childfree, retired 10 years ago and travel around the world. Love my nephews and nieces but I’m living a dream without the anxiety associated with raising kids. I volunteer and live a peaceful life. I never feel the need to defend my decision.

@truthmerchant1 2 years ago

"You'll be alone and miserable when you're 50"
I'm way past 50 and still loving the peace and quiet 😊

@Jay-vr9ir 3 years ago

Saturday mornings belong to you , sleep in and have your own schedule.Childfree yes!

@asavannah7439 3 years ago

Life stops being fun BECAUSE you have kids. I know too many stressed and struggling people with children who aren't happy.

@GLeon-ov9yu 3 years ago

My opinion is that many parents are codependent narcissist that should have never had children. Children are not a necessity for a full life. When asked why people had a child, their answers sound very controlling and narcissistic most of the time. It’s always about “them” and not the child.

@Rebecca-bq4ez 1 year ago

Being childfree also lets you be in a position to help others in your life because you have the freedom, time, and possibly even the finances to do so.

@martuskarogowska 3 years ago

I do believe that most parents who make these comments to childfree people are doing so to convince themselves that they made the right decision. If they were really so sure, they wouldn't need to use (and bring down) others.

@beckyaquino5007 3 years ago

I’m 46 and never wanted kids. I knew at the age of 9! I love it and have no regrets. And let me tell you what’s not discussed!! I have had dozens upon dozens of women with children whom after talking to me about my personal decision, secretly confess to me how they wish they were brave enough to have chosen the same. There are tons of women out there with kids whom are in the closet about wishing they never had kids. When I’ve asked them why they had kids they all said because their spouse and/or family pressured them to have them. And so they felt they had to, NOT because they genuinely wanted to be mothers. It’s very taboo to chose to be child free. Thank God my parents accepted that about me 10 years ago and finally stopped asking.

@Schokoladentoertchen 3 years ago

I hate when people assume that I must hate kids. I love kids, I just don't want any of my own. I wish people would understand that I love having children in my life. I love being an aunt, a godparent and a frequent babysitter for many friends. I just don't want a kid of my own. I wish people wouldn't frame it like either you like kids then you'll have them or you hate them.

@josephthecreator 3 years ago

Shout out to everyone living their best life #ChildFree

@itsTomFox 10 months ago

Intentionally not having kids was the best decision my wife and I made. I had a harsh childhood filled with neglect and mild abuse. This pattern had been in my family for generations. I decided to end the cycle of pain. I was not going to let another future human being feel unloved or neglected. 30 years, no regrets. We did the right thing. Kids need to be a conscious decision, not a reflex or an accident.

@NookTommy 3 years ago

I never liked kids. I know it since young. I never liked having them around. I love my freedom and peace and not willing to give my energy and attention to people most of the time.

@007Aura 3 years ago

I think it is very suspicious when parents try so earnestly to change your mind about being childfree. It’s almost as if they need you to give them validation for their own life choices. Misery loves company perhaps? 🤔

@a-b0t633 3 years ago

I'd rather be bored than stressed. And besides, what's wrong with boring? You can be boring if you want. You don't need an exciting and busy life to be happy if that's not your personality. If you're a boring person you'll still be boring with kids. But who cares anyway? Your life isn't a reality show.