I have a classmate she got pregnant at the age of 13 and I beg my mom to go to her baby shower and my mom was very against it because middle school child at a baby shower was crazy to her, which it was lol.  She did allow me to go. But now the girl  has her doctorate degree and she’s a principal of her own school in my hometown so I say that to say this, don’t let your mistakes define you you can always overcome overcome them as long  as you’re on this earth. ❤❤

i’m sorry but your second baby daddy is absolutely DISGUSTING at his big ass 19 y/o age telling an 11-YEAR-OLD that he’s gonna put a baby in you. it’s so disturbing knowing this is happening in our community omg

Break the cycle
Talk to all of your children about LIFE!! DO NOT SUGAR COAT ANYTHING.. because life doesn't sugar coat nothing..

You said a few things that didn't sit well with me and not from a place of judgment, but from a place of love.  You said no one taught you that you could get pregnant then later said that you were fast when you lost your virginity.  You were not fast, you were a product of your environment.  You were teased for not kissing and sleeping with boys.  The entire community failed to properly guide you and your peers. THAT is what doesn't sit well with me and I'm sorry none of you were taught properly or allowed to be kids.

You cannot consent when you are intoxicated and Rape is not always violent like a episode of SVU. That man should be in jail

This is such a heavy personal story to tell, but the way she tells it with humor shows the type of person she is.

That second pregnancy was s.a. Statutory because of age and you were not able to consent because of alcohol

I just wanna hug and hold that scared 13 year old and look into the face of that 15 year old and tell you how strong and resilient you are. This was THE BEST story time. I do pray that you’re really in a good headspace now despite your life experiences ❤

Peer pressure is real. Especially if a 15 year old is having sex with middle school kids. It doesn’t matter if the 15 year old is a female or male. They should not be allowed alone with a 11,12,or 13 year old.

I know someone who had her first at 13 & second at 15 and later she had twins. Funny! Her two oldest graduated HS, went to college, graduated college, got married, bought a home and had kids. In. That. Order. The twins graduated HS a few years ago, the boy went to college & the girl ended up having a teenage pregnancy, she didn’t go away to college like her twin, but stayed at community college. My friend even went on to college (after raising her kids, she did marry the twins’ dad) and got a couple of degrees herself. Her & her husband are now empty nesters enjoying life, family & grandkids.

The fact that your mom disowned you, DEVASTATES ME!! You were a CHILD. 😢

Hearing stories of young black girl being abused and or coerced breaks my heart!

This is why my mom put me on birth control at 14. I lied and told her a wasn't having sex and didn't need it. Of course, she knew I was lying. I thank her for that.

My heart broke when you showed your arm and said you used to hurt yourself and for your mom to know that and still abandon and isolate you is unfathomable to me. That's a time where you needed more support. So sorry you had to go through all of that. I commend you for telling your story, God bless you girl ❤

Your mom disowned you is the saddest part of this entire story.

You’re not fast girl you were a victim 😢

You really overcame your circumstances and you are still standing!! You are strong 💪🏾

There is a thin line between making a mess of your life and overcoming and encouraging  other teenagers to mess up their lives

Unfortunately, your parents/school did you a disservice by not educating you on women’s health, sex and all the consequences…and shunned/punished you for their inadequates. Unbelievable, so glad you are doing ok in spite of their issues.

you’re a great story teller. it’s devastating that so many adults let you down. and it’s fucked what those men did