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The Earliest Sign Someone Is Dangerous | Chase Hughes & Vanessa Van Edwards

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Chase Hughes and Vanessa Van Edwards explains why you should NEVER Ignore This Feeling After a Conversation.

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Some dangerous people do not appear threatening at first—they make you feel unusually good.
In this video, Chase Hughes, Vanessa Van Edwards and Andrew Huberman explain how dopamine spikes, boundary testing, mismatched expressions and high-conflict behavior may reveal manipulation before it becomes control.

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Chase Hughes is a former US Navy Chief and leading behaviour expert and body language master. He is the bestselling author of books such as, ‘The Behavior Operations Manual: Neuro-Cognitive Intelligence’ and ‘The Ellipsis Manual: Analysis And Engineering of Human Behaviour’.

Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of ‘Science of People’, which gives people science-backed skills to improve communication and leadership. She is also the bestselling author of ‘Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People’ and ‘Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication'.

Dr. Andrew Huberman is a neuroscientist and tenured professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology at Stanford School of Medicine.

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20 Comments

@marcthebeginning Creator 12 days ago Pinned

What's a feeling you've had after meeting someone that told you something was off?

@lipglossnetty 11 days ago

Don’t have people in your life that disturb your peace that is a good indicator.

@HAZMOLZ 8 days ago

Trust your gut. Even if you can't articulate what it is, the moment someone makes you feel unusually uncomfortable, run.

@jeaniebird999 12 days ago

The narcissist that opened my eyes to narcissism used to pay me compliments but they never felt good. I thought I had to be the jerk for not being grateful for the compliment. In hindsight, I now realize they were never really compliments, after all. A true compliment makes you feel good, or better, NOT worse.

@hanneskonigwinqvist4396 10 days ago

The body always knows. The hard part is to understand it's language

@FrancesHart99 12 days ago

They make you feel good and get you to invest in them before the abuse begins so it’s harder for you to exit. Beware the weasel.

@RebeccaPeterson-r7e 12 days ago

My sister is a 40 point, highest score you can get, psychopath according to Dr. Robert Hare’s PCL-R. Good luck trying to educate people on what to look for. They are like a spider who has built a grandiose, unbelievably complex and beautiful web. You’re either attracted to to the web and want a closer look, or the web snags you by a gossamer strand. Either way, the spider knows you’re curious and comes in with paralyzing and overwhelming grandiosity, wraps you up, then proceeds to slowly suck the life out of you.

@JohnNightstar4494 8 days ago

Always beware of those coming to you bearing gifts, smiles and compliments.

@SimmoGreenfield 10 days ago

The fewer people you have in your life...the fewer problems you have.

@mxcope 12 days ago

Always be guarded with unknown people, and trust your instincts

@denannas4424 11 days ago

The thing about sharing something vulnerable.... They may share something extremely vulnerable to trigger a protective response in you. Now you are their protector and they mention it repeatedly to keep you there

@NormanU-e7i 11 days ago

My neighbour really liked to talk over me and try to control the conversation, and speak for you, and down to you. He gave almost everyone a bad vibe. I remember a woman who ran a small restaurant used to lock the door on him to avoid being alone with him. Everyone felt the same about him.

@JavierCR25 9 days ago

Never trust or befriend someone who’s always either a victim or a hero in their stories, but never de villain…

@lifeoutsidecomfortzone 8 days ago

The faster I click with someone and the more I like them upon initially meeting them (like, ‘I could be best friends with this person!’ ‘I feel like I just met my future husband!’) are more often than not the people who end up turning out to be the most manipulative 😅. My best friends, and the mentally healthy people I’ve dated, I had lukewarm or even ‘I don’t know if I like that person’ vibes when I first met them.

@Inactivated 8 days ago (edited)

I know this isn’t all, but my ex had Borderline Personality Disorder and he was exactly like this but a darker mix. He was diagnosed half way through our relationship and he started out seemingly normal and kind.

Then he started splitting and loving watching anyone suffer. Began hunting single moms on dating apps for prey to hold them captive. He was arrested. Now he’s out and back on dating apps.

I left him so fast. 💨

@AlexthunderGnum 9 days ago

When someone is talking to you like issuing instructions or giving you scores - that is aggression. They see you as an NPM in the game they are playing, not as a person with an equal value. Stay away from them, not matter how attractive they might appear to you.

@Ducklady1967 12 days ago

Trust your gut.

@denisesspapetite9507 8 days ago (edited)

The problem is if you were raised around a psychopath your awareness is so heightened that you become aware of everything. You are always analyzing and looking for threats and it causes problems socially. It took me most of my life to just try to connect socially and be in the moment. To realize that most people are nice people.

@KevlarKoat 11 days ago (edited)

Remember that some people love bomb you and make you feel great at the beginning just because they're insecure people pleasers who love to give, which can be completely selfless and well-intentioned.

@youtubefarley776 8 days ago

I met a couple at a friends house. Very charming and they seemed nice but I just couldn't trust them. Ran into the girlfriend one day and got that horrible sinking feeling in my guts. I found out much later on that they were child sex offenders. And I honestly wasn't suprised.