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Why We're Going for a Third Baby After Being "Done!"

Blair Lamb

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20 Comments

@taylor4725 1 year ago

It’s really beautiful to hear the weight of another child contemplated in depth and how sweet for your children to know they were so wanted.

@alexandrabenoit9364 1 year ago

❤❤❤ “If you want a village, you have to be a villager.” Love that so much! Prayers for the journey ahead! 🙏🏼

@taylorriccucci 1 year ago (edited)

As a mama who struggled with infertility for five years and adopted the most perfect baby boy this year, hearing you talk about this season being fleeting—and that the trenches don’t last forever—really shifted my perspective from “we might be one and done” to “God, what do you have for us?” That should be my heart posture anyway. But when you’re in the thick of it, it’s hard! Praying for y’all—and maybe twins will be in the future? 🤭

@junefielder1033 1 year ago

Remember that “one more baby” could equal twins 😆
Signed,
A singleton & twin Mom 😂

@meganwynne418 1 year ago

We have three kids and we said we’d be done after three if we had one of each gender. But, almost three years later, I am finally being honest with myself and we have decided that we want a fourth child. It feels so right, after telling people we’re done for the last two and a half years.

@oliviaanderson3326 11 months ago

Referencing your rooted series really took me back. I probably commented on every single one of those videos; it was so comforting to me to feel like I wasn't alone in absolutely hating where I lived. I was so grateful then, and still am, that you were willing to be that vulnerable and share. And now we are both so content in our lives!!! Wild. Thrilled for y'all and the hope of expanding your family <3

@glenelle24 1 year ago

I am in a really tough season of parenting. All my children (3 earthside 1 in heaven) are 25 and over. Parenting never ends or goes on vacation, the seasons come and go, and just as your really hard season passed, I know mine will too.
Towards the end of your video, a vision of you holding 2 babies popped into my head 😊

@codinuzzo 1 year ago

I love listening to you! You speak to so many things I have felt on this journey of motherhood. I wish you all the best in the next steps for your family!

@CEMS0923 1 year ago

Blair, as always your openness means so much to me…we have 2 and both of our children are on the spectrum. They are the best things to ever happen to us but because we want to make sure their needs and wants are always met, we are pretty sure we are finished having babies…but there’s a part of me that wonders. I will say, your honesty about your anxiety struggles is so familiar to me. I wouldn’t wish that fear on anyone but I appreciate you discussing it because it can feel so isolating when you’re so afraid of even the most illogical things. Thank you for sharing all that you do! I’m so happy for you guys and I hope this experience is an amazing one.

@nashpadilla2795 1 year ago

So excited for you guys omg!!!! 💫

@allyboyd9938 1 year ago

I love how God truly has us change our minds to see the bigger picture! I love the way you share, thank you for being the older sister 💗

We had super similar experience! Booked Ry’s vasectomy we both felt so sick about it & prayed about it. Mind you I had already donated nearly all our baby stuff because I was convinced we were done. Then God was like there is one more, and got pregnant the first month! Now just awaiting that sweet baby girl to make her arrival early December! I think it takes a lot for women for pregnancy in general and postpartum. Prayers over this journey for you & your fam 💗💗

@isabelrivera6891 1 year ago

I always look forward to these weekly videos! I’ve been a follower since Theo Tuesday’s. You have such a comforting presence and it has been a joy to watch your family grow
I’ve never wanted children and that still holds true but watching your family is so heart warming to me.

@ikaysiaprice 1 year ago

your thoughts don’t always need to be cohesive or well thought out to share. it’s often more helpful to those of us who are lost & confused when they’re not, because that’s where our heads are at too. thank you, as always, for sharing. you continue to be such a light to so many of us, including to those who don’t comment to say so ❤ praying you get pregnant quickly, if that’s what you want! ☺️

@TheSebastianDyeries 1 year ago

I’ve never been so excited for an internet friend to have a baby. The third is the most magical. The third with a 6&4 year old is like bonus magic!!!! It’s the absolute best! (Also I’m so curious is Allie so excited for this? 🤣)

@lindsayputnam7780 1 year ago

We don’t have a village. (Have experienced that before in college and I totally agree with you on how big of a difference it makes!) We’ve also been struggling with infertility for a few years now. Would definitely appreciate your prayers as we are actively desiring both things currently!
Thanks for sharing your heart, Blair!

@henshawmom 1 year ago

I wish you all the best with this new journey! We also went back and forth several times before making the decision on trying for our third. Our 3rd little guy has added such a dynamic to our family and he completes our family. 3 kids in the house is a WHOLE different beast😂 You guys are so lucky to have such an awesome village and support ❤ I'm excited for you!!

@Treanza 1 year ago

Thank you for sharing your intimate thoughts and feelings with all of us! I am so glad to know that you actually listen to those little whispers from up above! They will lead you down the right path! My fingers are crossed !🤞Many blessings to you and your sweet family! 🩷 So hoping that you all will still attend Mickey’s Not So Scary Halloween Party this fall!🎃✨

@clarissaroman2554 1 year ago

My kids are 10,7 and 3. Three kids is chaos lol but I wouldn’t have it any other way. Wishing you the best on growing your family. ❤

@sinjimuih1 1 year ago

I’m going to have to go watch that series. I have no village really, my family is 3,000 miles away and I have my in laws but they are not warm at all. I feel so alone and have been since i got married. I have 4 kids and I’m just so grateful the Lord gave me those precious souls to go through life with.