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I Took My American Daughter to Her First Aussie School Assembly — She Changed by Item 7

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My American daughter thought she knew exactly how school assemblies worked.

She'd spent years standing for the pledge, sitting in assigned rows, watching honor roll ceremonies, and learning that school was about achievement, rankings, and getting things right.

Then she attended her first Australian school assembly.

What happened next completely changed the way she thinks about school, failure, belonging, authority, and even herself.

In this video, I break down the *10 things my American daughter noticed at her first Aussie school assembly* — from the surprising lack of a pledge, to the principal in shorts, to the moment a nervous student forgot his speech in front of everyone... and discovered that failing wasn't the end of the world.

The first few differences confused her.

The next few made her curious.

But *Item #7 hit her so hard she ended up in tears.*

Not because anyone was mean.

Not because anything bad happened.

Because for the first time, she saw a school culture where making mistakes didn't mean losing your place.

And that realization changed everything.

Along the way, you'll see:

✅ The biggest differences between Australian and American school culture
✅ Why Aussie school assemblies feel so different from US assemblies
✅ The surprising role of community, belonging, and kindness in Australian schools
✅ The moment my daughter realized she had been carrying an "American school reflex" without knowing it
✅ Why one simple speech mistake became the most powerful lesson of the day
✅ What Australian schools teach children about failure, resilience, and confidence

If you're an American parent, Australian parent, teacher, student, expat family, or simply curious about the differences between Australia and the United States, this story may completely change how you think about education.

💬 Aussies: Is this what your school assemblies were like growing up? Has anything changed?

💬 Americans: How different was your school experience? What surprised you most in this video?

💬 Parents everywhere: Which school culture would you want for your child?

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20 Comments

@amishgirl1000 3 months ago

Aussie Parents watch over all the children, not just their own.

@amydixon2377 3 months ago

My favourite tuckshop story is the one where I messed up my lunch order and got away with it. Back in the early 90s, you ordered your lunch by writing your name, class and lunch order on a brown paper bag, putting money inside it to pay for your food, and sending it off to the tuckshop in a basket with the rest of your class. Then you go pick it up at lunch time. Well this one time I realised I'd messed up. I'd put in a blank bag. No name, no order details. Just the usual amount of money (and yes, you could tell the class from the basket it was in. I went to the tuckshop at lunch very apologetically ready to pay extra and ask if they could at least whip up a cheese sandwich. Without a word, the very kind, somewhat exasperated tuckshop lady handed me the bag with my usual egg sandwich and chocolate milk. She remembered my usual order. And recognised that the blank order was probably mine. And kindly filled the order and shared the joke with me. This is in a school of 400 girls, on a busy Monday. I was in awe, and very grateful!

@dilemmix 3 months ago

Aussie parent here. I'm so glad that Australian schools are way more relaxed than schools in America. There seems so much pressure there! Kids don't need all that pressure!

@izabelalabuda2106 3 months ago

I wish the photos would actually match the dialogue

@krank8385 3 months ago

My Grandson who had a behaviour problem when he was young, he'd be fine in year 6 and then go off into a tantrum of laughing and rolling on the ground in class and disrupt the class, then he'd stop after about a minute and he'd be fine, he had so much energy. the teacher were great and the headmaster bought him a skipping rope and told him when ever he felt an outburst coming, to go outside class and skip until he feels better, he did that and it worked, he was such a nice kid and everyone loved him. now he's much older and has grown out of it. i'd hate to see the way they would have treated him in an American school.

@ross.venner 3 months ago (edited)

We get some of the year 9 and 10 kids on the programme I'm part of. They're just not suited to sitting still and listening to a teacher spouting at the front. Mostly boys, full of boyish energy.

We teach them to build sailing dinghies, and we teach them to sail the boats they build.

We succeed with most of them. My two favourite moments... A boy glued to his mobile phone at morning break, "Don't bother about me, I've got ADHD."

My response, "Are you going to allow your diagnosis to define the rest of your life?" He joined in and later said, "nobody said that to me before." He got an apprenticeship. The second memory, one of our boys, young men, really, got an apprenticeship with a very prestigious boatyard. He volunteered to help on our project at the Hobart Wooden Boat Festival. On day 3, with the boat coming together fast, and his new boss, a leading light in the industry, just strolled in to see how his young recruit was going. Genuine interest in one of his youngest staff.

And that young man, going great guns last time we heard.

@sarahhayse-gregson689 3 months ago

Assembly is in the morning. Some schools gather in the Assembly Hall, others have it in the playground where nobody is sitting down. After assembly they go to their respective classrooms, they do not eat a sandwich. Lessons begin and first break at around 10:30, to have your “play lunch” ( name differs between States). Once a week, it’s the raising the flag, the national anthem and the school song, plus the Principal’s speech.

@LeanneWallis-c4m 3 months ago

Yes, my youngest just finished grade 12. Not a locked gate in sight for any of my kids.
A prep to yr 12 school, only the younger ones sit on the floor at assembly due to lack of chairs.
No metal detectors or security.
Positive reinforcement not just for grades but also humanity.
Raises people with morales and that reinforcement makes them want to do better academically.

@OTDPlantagenet 1 month ago (edited)

I loved the "I don't care" part. Your daughter is good. You've just gotta dig in and have a go, and if others think that's a fail then aren't they the drips for even caring about that.. You have to have a go, or life is full of fear. And, inertia due to fear is the real fail.

@suebursztynski2530 13 days ago

At the school where I taught for many years, there was a student in a wheelchair who insisted on taking part in races at the school sports. He didn’t win, but everyone cheered for him.

@lynettelillyman68 2 months ago

My g'children's school gives out certificates for kindness & t the beginning of each school year, a grade 5 or six is given a child in the first day of school to mentor & look after. This teaches the children to be kind & care for each other. There are houses in primary & secondary school. Usually the primary school houses are usually colours but in high sch they tend to be named after a person of some note. Lyn

@borrowedlife 3 months ago

I left school over 65 years ago. In those days the supposed mother country was England no matter if you were from England, Italy Spain or anywhere else. We chanted an oath to the Queen and sang god save the Queen . Real pain . I was very glad when they stopped it.

@murrieteacher 3 months ago

I was one of those educators, we try hard to make school a learning experience. We don't care who you are your important. Our funding is different from the USA. You play sport because you want to participate. It is NOT going to get you a scholarship at some tertiary institution. I am sad for the kids in the USA, they have been brainwashed.

@TheLegin11 3 months ago

In the 80's we had a substitute teacher who the kids tormented him for 45mins. Teacher was having a bad day. A group of us got together and asked him if he wanted to join us at a local club playing pool or snooker. He agreed. I bought the first round of beers. Yes. 15 y/o. Teacher couldn't believe it. But didn't say anything. We all spent an hour there. Just talking and having fun.

@friendlyloon 3 months ago

We used to have a pledge type thing in primary school in 70's and would sing both Advance Australia Fair and God Save the Queen. A l9ng time ago in a galaxy far, far away.....ok, in Melbourne a long time ago.

@vickicheadle6895 3 months ago

The high schools are more corporate, but they have had bullies issues in just about every school my sons attended.

@JudithEdwards-p8o 3 months ago

Schools in New South Wales have locked gates. In many, you hit a buzzer to enter during school hours.

@AaronColbert-f3w 3 months ago

10 years old in school back in the 80s totally different beast

@dw-ct1vl 3 months ago

“Welcome to country” was only introduced in 1980’s. It’s not traditional

@krank8385 3 months ago (edited)

Americans always feel the need to prove themselves the best, the louder the better, Australians don't feel the need to prove anything, we don't care, it's like the military, Americans walk around with caps that read Army or marines or veteran on the cap no matter how old they are and everybody says thank you for your service, Australia's military do their job if it's war or peacetime, they leave the military and just get on with their lives, no caps and no wanting thankyou for your service, we don't need it, we do the job then get back to normal life. no fuss no bother, no wonder they call Australians lay back, and i wouldn't have it any other way.