Как устроена психика ребенка. Лекция Александра Колмановского
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Psychologist Alexander Kolmanovsky talks about a fundamental psychological trait: self-acceptance.
Self-acceptance is formed in childhood. Negative self-acceptance is formed under the influence of parental scolding and punishment. Positive self-acceptance develops in a child when a parent responds to any of their mistakes with empathy, acceptance, and support. For example, a child breaks a cup. What is the parent's reaction? The first option is to panic and yell (the child is scared, and now the parent makes the situation worse)—this is how negative self-acceptance is formed. The second option is to pity and console—"Are you hurt?"—this is the path to developing positive self-acceptance in a child.
Therefore, children should not be scolded and punished for purely practical reasons—to avoid distorting their personality and turning them into people with negative self-acceptance. Various communication strategies with a child, their impact on their development, and the roles of mothers and fathers in raising a child. How to raise a balanced and confident child.
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И то- слава Богу.
Спасибо, дорогой ☀
Спасибо!!!! Буду переслушивать и пересматривать)
Имеет для меня большой терапевтический эффект.
Думаю, что ещё не раз пересмотрю
Спасибо Александру за то, что он делает❤
Такое отношение сложилось у нас само собой, мы очень ценим друг друга, поэтому каким-то неосознанным способом пришли к этому.
Похоже этот способ действительно работает
Как устроена психика ребенка. Лекция Александра Колмановского
Среда обучения
353,768 views
#psychology #childpsychology
Psychologist Alexander Kolmanovsky talks about a fundamental psychological trait: self-acceptance.
Self-acceptance is formed in childhood. Negative self-acceptance is formed under the influence of parental scolding and punishment. Positive self-acceptance develops in a child when a parent responds to any of their mistakes with empathy, acceptance, and support. For example, a child breaks a cup. What is the parent's reaction? The first option is to panic and yell (the child is scared, and now the parent makes the situation worse)—this is how negative self-acceptance is formed. The second option is to pity and console—"Are you hurt?"—this is the path to developing positive self-acceptance in a child.
Therefore, children should not be scolded and punished for purely practical reasons—to avoid distorting their personality and turning them into people with negative self-acceptance. Various communication strategies with a child, their impact on their development, and the roles of mothers and fathers in raising a child. How to raise a balanced and confident child.