In episode 268 of the podcast, I hosted Attorney Hila Witkowski-Peretz, a mediator and couples therapist who developed a unique method of couples diagnosis: a short and focused process for couples who are minutes away from divorce, and want to stop for a moment and check before making a final decision.
We talked about couples diagnosis as a space for stopping and reflecting before the biggest decision, about regret that haunts people for years, about menopause and the decline in estrogen that robs them of the ability to contain themselves and causes many women to say "that's it, I'm not ready anymore"; about the need to update the unwritten marital contract after years together; about infidelity as the most difficult crisis to recover from, and about the tension between security and passion in long-term relationships.
In the episode, you will find answers to the questions
How does couples diagnosis actually work?
How do you know if a couple has reached the end of its journey or if the relationship can still be saved?
Why don't people get divorced in the first year after a child is born?
How do you release years of regret over divorces that have already happened?
What is the unwritten marital contract, and how do you update it after years together?
What kills a marriage the most: infidelity, routine, or accumulated disappointment? And is it possible to revive a dead relationship?
If you are standing on the threshold, with a suitcase in one hand and doubt in the other, this episode is designed for exactly that moment. Not to convince you to stay, nor to push you to leave, but to help you choose with clarity and not out of fatigue, anger, or fear.
Because the decision to divorce can free you, and it can also haunt you for years. The difference between the two begins with the questions you ask before you say "this is it."
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In episode 268 of the podcast, I hosted Attorney Hila Witkowski-Peretz, a mediator and couples therapist who developed a unique method of couples diagnosis: a short and focused process for couples who are minutes away from divorce, and want to stop for a moment and check before making a final decision.
We talked about couples diagnosis as a space for stopping and reflecting before the biggest decision, about regret that haunts people for years, about menopause and the decline in estrogen that robs them of the ability to contain themselves and causes many women to say "that's it, I'm not ready anymore"; about the need to update the unwritten marital contract after years together; about infidelity as the most difficult crisis to recover from, and about the tension between security and passion in long-term relationships.
In the episode, you will find answers to the questions
How does couples diagnosis actually work?
How do you know if a couple has reached the end of its journey or if the relationship can still be saved?
Why don't people get divorced in the first year after a child is born?
How do you release years of regret over divorces that have already happened?
What is the unwritten marital contract, and how do you update it after years together?
What kills a marriage the most: infidelity, routine, or accumulated disappointment? And is it possible to revive a dead relationship?
If you are standing on the threshold, with a suitcase in one hand and doubt in the other, this episode is designed for exactly that moment. Not to convince you to stay, nor to push you to leave, but to help you choose with clarity and not out of fatigue, anger, or fear.
Because the decision to divorce can free you, and it can also haunt you for years. The difference between the two begins with the questions you ask before you say "this is it."
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Subscribe to the podcast to receive updates on each new episode
https://karmaschool.co.il
---
My courses:
https://karmaschool.co.il/courses-home
My books:
https://books.ruthdayan.co.il
3 Stories Blog:
https://blog.ruthdayan.co.il
Contact:
Telephone: 03-6708888
Fax: 03-6708889
Email: ruth@ruthdayan.co.il
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Office website: https://RuthDayan.co.il