He was an idiot who skipped his anniversary with no explanation or valid reason then chose not to accept responsibility entering a cold war hoping sheâd just get over it. Then without any discussion or warning suddenly asks for a divorce throwing away his wife and the baby he didnât know existed. I donât blame her for keeping it secret although in most states and countries u cannot divorce if pregnant and u must disclose it the minute u find out if in proceedings. He lost out on the joy of the pregnancy watching her belly grow the baby move abd kick labour and delivery. He sees his son once a month which is not enough to build a bond abd still remarry and he will become sad because he lives there full time abd he will eventually realize he has only a superficial relationship with his child because dad is the one there at night at bath time at bedtime fir scraped knees first day if school etc. he will miss everything fir 2 hrs a month. All because he was selfish couldnât own up to his mistake apologize then rushed a decision tgat should have been discussed first. What a fool.
I suppose Adrian & Mara walked away from their marriage because the man had already decided on a divorce for whatever reason without considering counseling & Mara wasn't about to beg Adrian to stay if she knew she could take care of herself and he would simply complicate things if he knew about the pregnancy.
Youâre both foolish to not talk to each other and throw away your marriage. You both gave up & walked away without even talking about, well, anything. What a shame. Probably seeing a counselor, actually talking and listening to each other, couldâve gotten your relationship back on track. I get the feeling neither one of you cared enough to make that effort. This story just makes me feel sad.
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