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5 Ways to Respond When She Starts to Pull Away

Stop Losing Women with Harry Wilmington

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0:00 Intro
0:14 What is the "Pull Away" Test?
1:23 Why They Pull Away
1:41 Reason #1
3:52 Reason #2
5:38 Reason #3
6:55 Is Her Pulling Away a BAD Thing?
8:09 Intro - 5 Ways to Pass Her Test
8:15 Solution #1
9:36 Solution #2
11:15 Solution #3
13:05 Solution #4
14:12 Solution #5
17:41 Outro

20 Comments

@StopLosingWomen Creator 2 years ago Pinned

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@KoThu-e8d 1 day ago

I keep seeing people talk about attraction like it’s all about looks and confidence. Then you come across Lorian Kade talking about desire vs validation and suddenly the whole thing looks different.

@nathanmahoney9365 3 years ago

You dump a girl who's testing you and playing games. If she doesn't make you feel good and has you watching videos like this, you're not a good match.

@supernez3685 2 years ago

Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

@BAKER22-l4u 3 years ago

There's ONLY ONE way to pass the test, and that's to TOTALLY IGNORE her! SIMPLE

@ronson3161 2 years ago

Here’s a lesson to be drawn.
Don’t compromise your sanity for someone else’s insanity.

@danielbristow4681 2 years ago

That's a sign to leave. Fail the test and do you.

@knowbetterdobetter44 3 years ago

It’s all fun and games until the same energy is done to them by the man they pursue. That’s when they go ape shit. The same energy u put out is what u get back!

@Hristian93 2 years ago

1) mirror her answers and reactions
2) react with indifference
3) don't call her out on her behavior
4) have other stuff going on your life
5) it's fine if she needs time for herself

@chrispewkreme 2 years ago

If she pulls away, she isn’t interested. Just give up. She isn’t worth the effort or stress.

@DeadbySnuSnu 3 years ago

If a woman does this, walk away. Stop feeding into playing their bs games. Continue on with your life and if she doesn't come back in an appropriate amount of time for you, cut her loose permanently and move on.

@jonsprague1977 2 years ago

Dudes, we really messed up by killing all the dinosaurs.

@fuzzypanda1684 1 year ago

Pulling away isn't one time where she breaks her normal vibe, response time etc. Pulling away is something that happens progressively over a few days, weeks etc. If you freak out because she didn't reply quickly one time, you shouldn't be in a relationship. But if you've noticed that her number, length, or frequency of texts has been dropping off, and FAR more importantly, the content and vibe of her texts have changed, THAT'S what you need to pay attention to.

@shaidoomar9312 2 years ago

Completely disconnect is the best way to move forward

@yowhatitlooklike 3 years ago

Our phones have ruined genuine human connection. There was a brief wonderful time before cellphones where you just called her, if she picked up you talked, you make a date. If she didn't you left a message and waited. I was in 7th grade and it was the easiest relationship I ever had.

Now it's like, you get read receipts, you get the little green dot next to their profile telling you they're online, you get this "stories" bullshit where both of you have to peacock and pretend you're living your best life for validation. It's not healthy, it turns us into narcissistic babies, hijacks our reward systems, AND makes everyone feel entitled to constant communication and contact. And then we pretend it's always been this way, that it SHOULD be this way, that we as individuals are the problem. No wonder so many people are lonely

@CassandraBeckner 1 year ago

Respond with calm detachment — mystery keeps her curious, not your panic 😏🧠

@acct4600 4 years ago

what i learned from this video is that b***hes ain't s**t smh

@edd2184 1 year ago

So what I'm starting to realize is they like toxic chaos, until that toxic chaos drives them into a brick wall.

Then they want some dude to come with a Superman cape to fix their mistakes 🤷‍♂️

@abilityup6734 3 years ago

You forgot #4: She has other guys she's interested in, possibly more than you. Especially with online dating the average looking woman has more options than she ever did. Either way the solution like you mention remains the same: Have things going on in your own life, work on yourself and as a positive it helps remain indifferent to the random "ghosting". The other thing men forget is she also needs to prove she's worth your time, but there's no need to ever call her out. Your time is valuable, it's literally a waste of time to try to call her out and argue. If you try to setup for a date more than once and she dodged without offering anything then you know she's not that into you, and you move on. Stay on your path kings.