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The BIG LIE Men Need to Stop Telling Themselves When She Pulls Away

Stop Losing Women with Harry Wilmington

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14 Comments

@appletreekicktest2511 2 years ago

I'm 42, very experienced. I've had woman all my life. In the beginning they will insult me in some way or quietly pull back... it's all the same. I've always had the attitude to move forward. In almost every case the woman is at my door crying. 10 minutes later I'm in the promised land. Someone has to have 51%+ of the power. I think this is a power test. Regardless, she must submit and conform. No other way. I know you miss that sweet voice and those soft charms but the best way is to go cold, practice how you'll play it when she does reach out... incidentally, they always came back when I was sure it was dead.

@abhyudaytiwari630 4 years ago (edited)

Thanks for putting up such a video out there. Having a vendetta against someone who might have other things going on is not fair and is quite unjustified. Even if she is losing interest or just genuinely occupied .. best answer is backing off and giving space and just letting it be. Sometimes nobody is wrong.

@HP-in8pl 1 year ago

My girl is pulling away right now.... She chased me, pursued and always reached out. Once we slept together and started getting more and more intimate.... she began to pull away. On top of that, she started a new job. I'm doing my best to give her space and not to reach out. Her birthday was next week and I tried to see if she wanted to get together but she already had plans for a trip with her friends. So now, i think the best thing to do is just pull back and wait

@OriginalBobJohn 3 years ago (edited)

Also, to any fella that reads this, know for sure that no matter what, no matter who you meet every single relationship and every woman will have a cold cycle. It starts hot, it cools off, and how the cool off goes determines the next hot cycle. You use that cold cycle to launch you into more intense heat than before. As this fine gentleman said, imagine what it's like being a woman and what she has to do to make sure she's around people, and someone who won't straight do her harm. As men it's difficult to fathom but.. it's concern number one or two for the first little bit. If you handle her coldness correctly, to her, she thinks "Holy shit who is this man" because no on handles the cold phases properly. Remember these lyrics from Boston - "Hold on loosely, but don't let go. If you cling too tightly you're gonna lose control." Very, very timeless truth. Sally forth cocksmen.

@jimfurik1042 3 years ago (edited)

You are so right...I got too attached too quick and over texting...she was forward in the beginning and I then got distant....it was me over pursuing....I've not contacted her in days hoping she'll come back...I've noted my mistake of being too keen

@luismirandajr7342 2 years ago

Great video and it was something I needed to hear

@benruffo1197 3 years ago

If I ask the bank for a loan, first need to proove to the bank I really don't need the money. Then they will loan it to me. Is that how it works?

@dahuterschuter 1 year ago

A girl I've been talking with suddenly just stopped replying back about meeting up, her tone shifted a bit beforehand to less bubbly messages. Been three days and counting since she asked what days I'd be free, I replied, and now she's no reply.

Now I don't know if she's just got another guy, is mad because I took too long to reply to her (there was a couple texts over a busy weekend where I didn't check for near 24 hours), is testing me, I don't know. I dunno man.

@operationnarcnemesis2383 3 years ago

Is it possible for someone to have initial high interest have 2 great dates intimately kissed and started pulling away because she started feeling too much too fast ? FYI she asked me on the first 2 dates ands asked for the kiss

@germaellowo927 4 years ago

Thank you for this video, just wanted to know if you have a video on how to gain attraction from a lady when you messed up, just something I want to know for later stages

@royc5974 1 year ago

Wow took a long time to get to the answer. Basically it’s not her, it’s you messing up.

@yizzlekizzle2311 3 years ago

You're good. lol... this is the anti Andrew Tate

@teddymatun1303 4 years ago

My girlfriend doesn't reach out but answers my text

@kingdavid772 4 years ago (edited)

I noticed the girl I’ve been talking to has been pulling away by saying she’s busy, will ignore my messages sometimes, takes a long time to respond, and recently flaked.
Today I noticed the her long time on and off ex bf liked 1 of her newest IG photos today. So, now I’m suspicious and thinking maybe they are starting to talk again.