Reminder to anyone who needs it, You do NOT need a “good enough” reason to break up with someone. You don’t need any reason at all!

Any guy that says “you’re paying too much attention to your kids and not enough on me” are definitely messed up in the head. There is such a better way to go about this situation.

As someone who had postpartum depression that was diagnosed borderline psychosis, and whose partner was physically threatening my child when they cried, LEAVE HIM. Maybe you can work it out after he receives treatment for his mental health, but please for the sake of yourself and your daughters, get as far away from him as possible asap!

Story 3: I wouldn't recommend confronting him or talking to him prior to leaving... the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when you're leaving ESPECIALLY if they know. Please please talk to a dv specialist for help but do your best not to let him know what's going on until your and your babies are gone

Story 2: good job Jerry and Morgan for making it clear how dangerous this situation is. OP, please take it seriously, don’t let anyone tell you this is nothing to worry about etc. ❤️

Stories 2 and 3: Both OPs, get somewhere safe, IMMEDIATELY. Story 3 OP, you may need to go to a DV shelter. I know you both love your husbands, but they aren’t safe right now. You and your babies need and deserve to be safe. Right now you’re not. Please update when you’re safe. Sending so much prayer and love to both of you. 💕💕💕

Story 4: you can’t get over it because your boyfriend is/has weaponized it against you.
This isn’t healthy, run.

Theme suggestion! DRUGED UP OR DRUG DOWN? Dealing with addicts of any form?

Story 2: DON’T GET HELP! Get out! Those babies are your first priority. He has said he feels like hurting them. Get ouuuuuut!!!!!!

Omg story 2! This is so scary. I have a 5 month old and her dad is very involved, honestly couldn’t do this on my own, let alone having to worry that he could hurt her! Please pleas please for the love to your babies get help!

Story 4- the fact that he intentionally used this to hurt you can’t be unsaid or undone. He has no one but himself to blame for escalating your insecurity on purpose. I think that says something about who he is as a person and I think your reaction is your gut trying to tell you that the right person would never hurt you on purpose like that. The odds of you finding another virgin you click with is slim, but the odds of you finding a partner that doesn’t hurt you for funsies is much better.

Morgan- I saw that pumpkin patch video. How awful, but I never thought about how the kids wouldnt want to go because their dad ruined it. My jaw dropped. My sister and I were those kids.

Story 4, my analogy: it's like getting mad because the clothes you are wearing were touched by the seamstress that made them. It wasn't even when you wanted them, and that person made it possible for you to have that in your life.

And my comment: dad's words were beautiful, but OP won't believe them if she doesn't go to therapy. Because when you don't think you're enough, you are going to endure anything and everything, like his red flags.

I would love to see (if it hasn't already been done before) a kind of adulting theme? Im 26 and it feels like ill never been financially stable or able to move put of my parents house and ik a lot of other people my age feel the same way, i would love to hear dad's advice on that kind of topic ☺️

I agree, immediately go to your mom with your babies. You can never be over cautious. Talk with the whole family and get everyone on the same page to hold him accountable to get help. If he takes his out, then you have the entire family there to support you and help keep you and your babies safe. ❤❤

For story #2 he needs help! And op needs to leave in the meantime. And yes Morgan is right! Post pardum depression does happen in men too. I hope he gets the help he needs and that you are able to find a safe place ❤

Story 3: I have so many thoughts. First, she probably thinks that she was 90% of the problem when they were dating because he manipulated her and emotionally abused her to think so. Second, there are many women's shelters that will take you in. There are also legal aid organizations that can help with a divorce for low-cost or free. If you are able to, watch or read The Maid.

Story 4: Insecure GF, I feel like OP probably needs to not be in a relationship right now and should instead be focusing on her self esteem and self image.

I'm with Morgan, I think bf should have kept the "I had s@x to this song with my ex" to himself, that was shitty and also he is really down playing that previous relationship.

Part of me wonders if bf is openly comparing whenever they have a disagreement, "Ex would never do xyz," "Ex would do xyz for me "

Story 1: I (F) got married three years ago. I was supposed to also have a best man, my best friend and previous roommate of 7 years. I paid for his entire outfit and arranged a ride for him to get here because he lives in a town two hours away.  
Two days before my wedding he texted me and said he couldn't come, because he had a job interview the next day at 4 pm. I told him we would make it work, I would arrange a ride back home for him first thing the next morning, or even that night if he needed it so much. He blew me off. 2 months later he called me drunk and blubbering, apologizing for not showing up. He ended up getting the job. I went to visit him once, six months after the wedding and he was drunk when I got there at 7 am and made a mess out of my whole visit. A year later, he told me he bought a car and would come visit. That was a year and a half ago. I haven't spoken to him since. He hasn't been there for me at all, and I grew very tired of babysitting a drunk person every time I made the effort to be there for him. I hope that your husband and his best friend are able to resolve things, but remember to believe people when they show you who they are and how much they care. Sorry you're in this position. ❤

morgan we see you posting at 1am