It begs the question, how was he looking at you while your mom was alive?

She didn't plan but he did!

Oh sana he definitely had ulterior motives for you and he knew irongo lento azama uyenza since he started making a move on you xa esele. He is definitely not a nice guy.

What I can say is, uncle nice is not nice at all, but I’m not judging 🤷🏽‍♀️ girl follow your heart!

this is so freaking weird and wrong!!
Umntu that just introduced you to his friends and family as his child, suddenly makes out with you and wants a sexual relationship with you????
Guys that is just not normal! A father with their daughter? Doesn’t matter if it’s not biological!

My question is, don’t you think he will do it to the other kids since he did it with you?

She need to be financially independent first  in case she decide to let uncle move on with his life. Shes still young and she needs to explore but been around uncle nice shes stucked up with him

The better question here is "what is uncles Nice intentions about you"? Now that this has evolved.

Personally I think there is a boundary that needs to be respected - someone who has been intimate with umama wakho, how can you do the same with them. I think uncle nice crossed the line and you allowed him.
You need your own life, and not be in a state of limbo like this. Life moves fast, before you know it uzosala wedwa with no direction in life. Get yourself a job and stop relying on this not so nice uncle nice.

But sisi can have a healthy relationship with this guy, you not missing anything in marriage that you looking for. Have this guy life goes on.

Ndaske ndoika sana ngoba lomfana ingathi usakhupha stress se Ex yakhe engumama wakho kuwe like umcingisa umamakho😢😢
Uzomfumana sana umntu azomtshata then wena akuxelele ba ungumntana for yena or athi woika abantu bakowenu

It will end in tears mntase all I can say

I honestly love your weaves, please plug us

Let people judge you cc ,it will end then stop judging yourself 😢there are worse things out there

Your happiness comes first gal, if u uncle nice can marry you khohlwa abantu cos sekwenzekile mos and he is taking care of you and loves you and your siblings

They should go official,get married if possible.

literally the first one....yaaay

Yoooooooooooooo is all I can say....

Eish these people love each other,  disgrace is that it's an insult to the late mother. Angazi nam but I don't see any future here. I am not judging.

Sounds like this was always in his plans

Bazathi yini enibulale umama