It's really adorable that you are randomly sitting in a meadow

Every time you explain an aspect and the emotional and psychological effects, you explain it as personally and as insightfully as though you've experienced those things. It's not just technical like someone reading from a book about it. You get into some deep stuff and can even explain the subtle nuances and it's always right on. Very impressive and very much appreciated.

It took me more than 10 years to learn self love and yeah, my parents has never really showed me love. I knitted my mom a cross stitch with many hearts, few years later I saw it in the rubbish bin. I can't describe the pain.

#NailedIt  1) Delayed relationships till 30's.

The gift of Saturn is mastery of self love i think. I have the conjunction in my progressed chart now. I am valuing Capricornian characteristics in my partners

I reached me at 55 .... I’m loving me now!

#NailedIt 3) People are happier after the initial relationship period (after walls are down)

Lada, thank you for this explanation . I have venus conjunct saturn in cancer ascendant....I feel as if
I am destined to be alone. As I approach 40 years I am realizing I have no idea how normal relationships work. No clue! But I can take care of people and cater to their every need . I am amidst a soul crushing breakup and I wonder if I will ever recover.  Being a light worker this ability to feel is a blessing and a curse. Working on karmic debts. Hoping one day I will figure it out .  Thank you for your commitment. You have no idea how much you have helped me. !! Love You!!!!!

Watching this in 2025 , you really been doing this for a long time lol my fav astrologer!

I have this placement in Pisces 5th house (+ Venus is my 7th house ruler) and I never been in a relationship at almost 27. I beat the odds and learned to fully love myself at age 24. My friendships drastically improved. Now I view myself as beautiful inside out and I'm so confident. I still don't get approached by guys, but I take myself out on solo dates a lot and raised my dating standards. No more painful experiences for me. I kicked Saturn's butt. I AM worth it.

This makes so much sense, haven't been in a relationship and I'm 36. Always felt 'delayed' and that love is fake, no one will love me. Realizing I need to work on myself an hopefully it will come my way.

#NailedIt 2) May causes people to be  #guarded  / emotional walls up.

Omg. I have this placement in my birth chart and my boyfriend is exactly 7 years older than me. I’m 34 and just now learning to let go of past hurts. Wow. How on point is this!

Venus square saturn here.This aspect sucks.Try to have good self esteem but it keeps on going down.Square makes it too difficult.

So true. I think it is a major aspect on my natal chart concerning relationships. I can feel it so deeply, i have faced it and i am still facing it (31y.old), well not that much now but it has been so intense.
Went through so many disppointments in my love life,  stressful incidents and partners i didn't deserve that made me reserved, depressed, couldn't open up , express myself, share the love i had inside. Even in a long term relationship, it took me almost 6 years to feel free, say or ask what i really need. I would best describe it as an inner emotional battle that takes years (Saturn's slow impact) for someone to reach inner stability and satisfaction.

I was with someone in a long term relationship with Venus opposition Saturn.  He was emtionally abused and neglected by his parents in certain ways.  He was very cruel to me and hurtful. He witheld emotions and affection from me and in the end broke my heart.  His lack of connection with his heart was a result of his childhood so I understand now, but it’s important to be careful when you are involved with people who have this placement unless they go to therapy and heal their wounds. I loved him unconditionally but bc of his mother’s lack of conditional love he rebelled against me as if I was the mother. I had to prove my love and at the end of the day was told it was not enough- so true about What Lada says. I was busier and I know he felt something was wrong with me. This placement is very critical of their partner as well.  In the end he lost a woman who loved him more than he had been loved before.

This is one aspect in my natal chart that I wish I didn't have. I have Venus in Capricorn Squaring Saturn in Aries. It's the worst. I'm a hopeless romantic deep inside and I always fantasise about love and having a relationship, but I've never had one (I'm 22). My self esteem is incredibly low which makes me depressed which then makes me never want to leave my house and just 'give up' on everything, finding love included.

Lol I love everything she says about fashion and looks in this. How some with Venus-Saturn contacts will either believe in dressing down or over compensating. The person in my family that has a  0° Venus-Saturn aspects flip flops between both. One day she's breaking about how life maintenance she is because she loves her slacks and messy buns. The next day she is verbally assaulting people for "looking trashy" or unkempt while she is wearing designer clothes. I think she has not yet figured out her identity in many ways, and this is one of the ways it manifests

i'm 45 and still waiting, venus conjunct saturn

Now that I know this conjunction is why love doesn’t work for me, I know for sure that I should remain single for my own mental and emotional stability and well being. Tired of being hurt. I’ve been hurt so much that if someone “actually” did FINALLY love me FOR REAL, I wouldn’t even be able to believe them. I can’t keep risking my mental health for a love that never bares fruit, comes, or even exists. This is the worst placement ever. 🤷🏽‍♀️❤️‍🩹💯