People can deny it all they want, but life really does get easier when you look good. The respect, the kindness, even how seriously people take you changes. It’s sad, but pretending it’s not true doesn’t help anyone.

I’ve noticed that when I put more effort into my appearance, people treat me differently. Same personality, same mindset, just different reactions. That alone tells me looks matter more than society wants to admit.

The better I look, the better Im treated. And the higher caliber of people that are attracted to me.

Confirmation. I learned don't even go around crowds of people unless you look neat and fresh.

Yes. Can confirm.

You can have a “sh*tty” reputation, but if you’re cute, fit and on point, you will definitely get treated very well regardless… because beauty is currency.

Believe me. 👸🏻

Unfortunately, the older you get the more you realize that people do judge you by your looks. So even if you are older, keep your hair in good shape and stay in shape and look neat.

The saddest thing is, because of my looks, there are people I can't access. They just pretend they didn't hear me, look away, frown, glare etc. And then of course if I complain about that, people say "Oh, no, omg, they're the sweetest thing. Have you tried smiling at them ? Tried building a relationship?" or "uh, yeah, they're like that to everyone". Meaning they point blank just get away with their bad behaviour, continue to get friends and lovers, and I just sit looking like a dumb pawpaw because I dared speak up. I've even dropped out of working with people...I just can't , excuse my language, can't fucking do it anymore...them constantly judging my look my clothes my everything. I now work alone from home, delivering a completely faceless service, much better for my case ❤

The problem isn’t women caring about their looks, it’s the world attaching so much value to appearance in the first place. Women didn’t create these standards, yet we’re the ones judged for trying to survive them.

when i was younger, i noticed that when i dressed up, and wore make up, that i got treated WAY better than when i went out in casual clothing, without makup. in fact, i would sometimes get mean remarks off men if i went out without makeup on. a world of difference. however, as i got older, i thought "no. im not going to doll myself up just so men dont harass me." and i stopped making effort. yeah, i get treated a lot worse. but that's not my fault. it's society's problem.

I am a witness. My mom instilled this in me as a child, and looking well put together is my natural state. I always get jobs and opportunities with ease, etc. I’ve been criticized by other women who don’t take care of themselves, but they get mad at me when I get so much attention while we’re out.

The first video is AI oh my gosh 😭

Learn from South Korea. This small country was able to capture the world because of their beautiful and handsome Kpop Idols, and the way they sell their “visuals”. Kpop is now soft—power culturally relevant, and has become a billion-dollar industry. People started checking them out because they look good. Even Taylor Swift’s overall look is curated and is a reason why her music could go far because she also has good visuals that people want to look at her as much they want to listen to her. Same with Kpop Idols.

The woman who says right kind of friends, relationships, opportunities based on beauty are “blessings” is incorrect. Blessings are bestowed by a loving God for living righteously, not because of beauty.

Just based off the optics or manicured and perfected women and nepo daughter’s posting online and making brands selling idk—perfume, skincare and makeup for billions hasn’t told the world that message already then I don’t know what else will. Or Maybe the beauty politics and hot lists in middle and high school?

It feels redundant to post about. That’s the depressing reality. The hell realm enforcement. We f*cking know. It feels patronizing to be reminded.

Edit: woah, it sounds like I’m hostile at the end there. I’m just blunt. It’s just common knowledge.

Brooke shields didn’t have a career for having acne and buck teeth, did she? Grand advice. But it just incentivizes my ideation lol.

Always look your best for yourself. Self love over everything🎉🎉

Thank you for posting ❤this is an amazing video. Inspired me to be more invested in my image. I am thankful 😌 YouTube recommended this video!  ❤

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Where are links from these women?

I made a video regarding this called biblical health my perspective POV

Males are extremely MEAN to you if you don’t wear makeup or aren’t pretty. They go out of their way to make your life hell. I hate how female influencers shame women for getting filler and reshaping their bodies. They’re acting as if women would do this if the world was less cruel to them. Stop attacking the women, attack the men who abuse us for being ugly.