It makes a man wonder WHO asked for the divorce. The common catalyst here: these women were all lonely in their marriage, and felt invisible. It wasn't abuse-related, but was related to wanting an already good husband to be a BETTER HUSBAND. These women were chasing a fantasy of being treated like they were when they were still DATING. Meanwhile, we can all bet the intimacy in the bedroom depleted to almost nothing, not by the husband's doing.
I tried to do everything to save our marriage. He left me when we had two very small children. After about 1,5 years he was engaged with another woman. It was 24 years ago. It is still painful. Many hardships on the way, and still. It is devastating. But I have Jesus. God is the only one that’s helped me.