As my old granny used to say, " You don't miss the water until the well goes dry."

I told my ex the best thing he ever did was leave me. It’s true.

I have never been so frightened and so relieved in my life as when I ended my 20-year marriage. The one thing I never felt was regret.

My ex husband came to my workplace to tell me that he was giving me one last chance to come back to him or he was going to marry his girlfriend.  I congratulated him on his wedding.  😂 This was his face:  😮

When a man tells me he can do better or find better, I agree with him. There are women who can tolerate more BS than me and I’m okay with that.

Move in silence ladies.

Having the woman he's cheating with hand him divorce papers while you watch is completely and totally awesome! I salute you!

My ex-husband kicked me out of the car in the middle of traffic. Both our families sat down to discuss it and his didn't seem too bothered by his behaviour during the meeting because he'd spun some story to justify it... It took him 2 weeks to apologise, and he only did it 'cause his mum had noticed that things between us were different (I was refusing to get in the car with him, and was meeting him at the destination and travelling by bus - even when me, him and his mum were headed to same place and they were both telling me to "just get a lift this one time") and she'd told him he'd embarrassed her. His apology included the phrase "while my mum was lecturing me, I realised I might be losing my mum AND my wife". I only turned to him then to tell him he lost me the moment he kicked me out the car. From that moment, I introduced him to people as "my current husband" or "my first husband" until the divorce was official.

I'm now VERY happy with the man who is living up to the 'Husband' title in my life.

Exhausting a woman to get a second chance is also a very BIG RED FLAG!! What huge entitlement they have.

Stop saying you had love or respect.  Not TRUE! NOT TRUE!  yuck..

Girlfriend delivers divorce papers? CHEF'S KISS!

Same ol' story.  Too little too late!

He said there was fondness and respect. If that's the case, he would not have tapped that girl, that's he cheated on with.

Yeah, they do try to come back. When they realize the grass isn't greener on the other side.

Maybe you should have paid attention when she is there.

Guy in the blue shirt. I have to wonder what he did to her...she turned her back on him for a reason.

If he's truly changed he'll know that he does not deserve another chance and his actions will reflect this very reality. Stuffing his "regret" in yo face and forcing it down yo throat says "I deserve a second chance and YOU are gon give me what I 'deserve'"

It's so very true about men never forgetting their first love. She cheated on him and they broke up. He was devastated by her betrayal. Then he chased me, we fell in love and got married, and built a life together. Then one day he happened to read an article in the newspaper and recognized the name as her brother. He emailed the brother who put him in contact with her. He filed for divorce in February out of the blue. I was devastated. Once the divorce was final, it took me 2 years to feel ready to date. I met my future husband and life is fantastic now.

Men, when you go ghost on a woman expecting her to chase you and she doesn’t, the clock is ticking towards your demise. The pattern may repeat, and the man can stupidly feel a false sense of security thinking they’re getting away with it, but all he’s doing is chipping away at her until she begins to realise she’s much happier without him in her life. Physical signs at this point is she’s irritated with you, she doesn’t care, she makes excuses to get rid of him when he’s in her company, example; “l have to be somewhere” so you have to leave, or she just doesn’t answer your calls. Only a matter of time before she shows you the door for good.

I used to have a close friend who was married to a guy she used to manipulate a lot, he was manipulative, they were made for each other. Anyway she would scream and have a fit and not fake she would really be emotional, "I want a divorce, I hate you!!!!!" I would tell her, "you do not want to divorce. Because when you genuinely want to divorce, there's no emotion. You are real calm about it."